othersideofthepillow Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 (edited) quick question for the women out there as i would like their opinions: if you break up with a guy (are ALL feelings gone for him or can u just be too afraid to try and go back), string him along (intentionally or not) and than he puts his foot down and says enough - dont contact me anymore.... 1. would you contact him again even though he said not too? 2. would his stand make him more/less attractive to you? 3. would it just anger you? 4. would you never contact him again? thanks in advance for your opinions!!! Edited September 16, 2011 by othersideofthepillow
Thornton Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 I have dumped a few boyfriends in the past, for various reasons. For me, dumping someone is a pretty serious step, so by the time I dump someone there is pretty much no hope left and all feelings are completely gone. If he asked me not to contact him again, I wouldn't. His stand wouldn't make him any more/less attractive though, and it wouldn't make me angry either - if I've dumped him then I obviously don't care about him, so I would be completely indifferent and wouldn't care either way. I'd just say "Whatever" and not contact him again.
Author othersideofthepillow Posted September 16, 2011 Author Posted September 16, 2011 i see. thanks for the insight! thats my outlook exactly on a break up: break up - I AM READY TO HAVE YOU COMPLETELY OUT OF MY LIFE. However after the split, she ALWAYS initiated(s) the contact and what not. with that another quick question for you: in my case my ex has told me over and over again that she still wants to be close to me, and when i havent responded to her calls/texts (after the split) she gets really upset and ask why im not responding....perhaps the split is not completely thought through on her end....or more along the lines of she wants to have her cake and eat it too? thanks for you advice/thoughts!!!
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