jenjen83 Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 I just messaged my ex telling him I miss him. I'm so ashamed of myself. I know he won't even reply which will make me feel worse. I can do so much better than him (he even said this) so I'm so annoyed at being hung up on him.
marqueemoon4 Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 Stop being so hard on yourself... your feelings are valid. if you get no response remember how it makes you feel and hopefully that will keep you from doing it again.
Author jenjen83 Posted September 16, 2011 Author Posted September 16, 2011 (edited) Thank you I asked him a question but he didn't reply to it...guess it shows how much he cares. Edited September 16, 2011 by jenjen83
CaliBabe Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 Remember this for next time. When you have those feelings, always remember contact will never make you feel better, it will always bring you steps back.
Trolly Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 I'm sorry to hear about you having trouble letting go Jenjen. It took me a few months after my breakup to just stop contacting or seeking validation from my ex. The thought of potentially not meaning as much to her as she meant to me hurt (obviously I can over-think situations at times. Anyway stay strong. Your exes inability to react does not reflect your worth in any way.
Author jenjen83 Posted September 17, 2011 Author Posted September 17, 2011 When we first broke up he would never ignore me..always messaged me back, answered his phone to me but keeping this contact didn't help me so I told him I needed NC. Now I'm wondering if he isn't replying cos he knows it's best in the long run not to or if he can't stand me.
Trolly Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 It doesn't sound like it has anything to do with "not standing you". My assumption is that for ever reason he thinks that this is for the best and he does not want to prolong the pain on either side.
Author jenjen83 Posted September 17, 2011 Author Posted September 17, 2011 (edited) Thanks Trolly. That does make sense.Although having NC with me makes me better it also gives me hope cos I start to think that he must still care about me to do what he feels is in my best interest. Edited September 17, 2011 by jenjen83
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