coolheadal Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 That's the end of that if she doesn't like your appearance. Too much is into appearance you could have so much in common otherwise, then get slammed in the face with no physical attraction didn't match-up with her selectivity requirements. Check Please!
rafallus Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 No. You can be good looking and still fail to create attraction by being wishy-washy and insecure.
Cypress25 Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 That's the end of that if she doesn't like your appearance. Too much is into appearance you could have so much in common otherwise, then get slammed in the face with no physical attraction didn't match-up with her selectivity requirements. You wouldn't want to date someone you're not attracted to either. So why should she?
Cracker Jack Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 Yeah, uh, this sorta thing happens. I agree with Cypress. It's a two way street.
FrustratedStandards Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 Try being with a girl that you aren't physically attracted to, yet shes so great. Can you help it? No you can't. That's why we "friend zone" many guys. It's not that they aren't good enough or we don't like them at all, it's the attraction that isn't there. Attraction is far more important than people think. I think we should put more emphasis on that, but don't confuse attraction with shallowness. My first bf was f*cking ugly, and I still think he is, but I was incredibly attracted to him (for some reason) and that has been my longest relationship to date. The ones after him I wasn't as attracted to (barely at all in the beginning) and they were all only few month relationships. Would you rather that? Or would you rather find someone who is attracted to you and stand a better chance?
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