The Outlaw Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 Or do you just think it's a myth? I'm a member of another relationship Q and A website and this is one of the most FAQ's period. Some people feel that there indeed is, while some do not. What's your honest opinion?
coolheadal Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 If you follow online dating results they would make you think it's base on what a computer score shows Match % / Friend %. If two people share the same ideals and thoughts then they should connect-up right. If you go out into a bar/club and meet them that way you have no clue who she is really is. So is there someone for everyone sure there is, just life. When she or him comes calling then you'll know.
rafallus Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 By sheer math of amount of men and women not being equal, it's impossible.
oaks Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 Someone for everyone? It would only take 1 person to be completely undateable for it to be untrue, so I think it's untrue as I'm sure that some people are so messed up as to be completely undateable.
coolheadal Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 Not 100% but could be 95% if you get a real smart girl. Those smart girls don't do well with relationships and that's why they're still single even at age 37 and up.
madjac74 Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 When I have 20 women, it means 19 guys are SOL! haha joking! But seriously, some people's expectations of who they deserve ruins their chances of being with anyone. I do think there is someone for everyone but some people's egos cause them to overlook many of those people. And Coolheaded...What exactly do you mean smart girls aren't good at relationships? What about smart guys?
Woggle Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 Some people in general though it seems to be a trend with some women seem to be very book smart but relationship stupid. There are some things you just can't learn in a classroom or from a book.
Shaun-Dro Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 Some people in general though it seems to be a trend with some women seem to be very book smart but relationship stupid. There are some things you just can't learn in a classroom or from a book. I agree fully. A lot of women these days don't know how to even flirt or is too insecure to try. Who knows what their problems are?
madjac74 Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 Some people in general though it seems to be a trend with some women seem to be very book smart but relationship stupid. There are some things you just can't learn in a classroom or from a book. Really? How many books are there on love and relationships? How many classes, seminars, couples retreats? What are we all doing on LS if we are so smart about relationships? I don't think intelligence has anything to do with it but you can definitley learn from books and other people on how to understand relationships and your mate better.
Woggle Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 Really? How many books are there on love and relationships? How many classes, seminars, couples retreats? What are we all doing on LS if we are so smart about relationships? I don't think intelligence has anything to do with it but you can definitley learn from books and other people on how to understand relationships and your mate better. Sometimes I think those things make it worse. With all of that people seem dumber than ever when it comes to relationship.
FrustratedStandards Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 (edited) lol I think that's a silly notion told to people who will not lower their standards and settle down. I know women who are like that, waiting for "the one" and they end up dying alone. There is no such thing as soulmate. People who are smart enough to know this settle down with partners because of compatibility and similar lifestyles, and end up in happy relationships. People who look for "love" end up in screwy relationships because they are trying to make something that isn't there. Either that or they are always alone. So honestly, no I don't think there is someone out there for anyone. I don't think people are made for each other. I think out of thousands of people, we end up picking one (for whatever reason) and settle down with them just as we could have done with hundreds of others. Edited September 15, 2011 by FrustratedStandards
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