Im still contemplating my relationship

[Lucky555]

So while I have been not dealing with thinking about my relationship I have been getting messages from my bf. More than usual! Last week he would talk every other day and this week it's every day. Rather odd considering three weeks ago he rarely contacted me during the week.

 

So today he randomly sends me a message saying how he wants to do "sexy webcam videos"...his reasoning is because we don't see each other enough..which is due to him!! Like i said in previous posts we don't spend the entire weekend together! If we could we would be apart only 4 days a week! But he always wants to have one day which I know is to keep it going Slow!

 

So instead of a hey have a good day or miss you I get hey let's do sexy chats which benefit him!!

 

I Think he is unreasonable. I work full time in a challenging place and I study at night because i want to advance myself. I'm feeling like he is taking and taking!

I have asked to do weekend trips and he just won't!

 

I'm so frustrated but what am I to say when he wants some "sexy chat" and I don't want to! He should make time for a relationship!

I haver suspicion that he might be after other girls while he is at work too. He also frequently messages other girls.. I have no idea what the conversations are about and I really am disturbed by it.

I'm just frustrated because i want to make it work but it's so hard and it's not fulfilling my needs

[Bridgey]

I haven't followed your story very closely but I do recall reading other threads you've posted about this relationship. The conclusion I come to: you don't seem happy in this relationship. Why are you still with him?