ali123 Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 BAsically me and my long term girlfriend left me after 5 years about a month ago because she felt i drink too much and that i want to be single, She was right about the drinking and since then i have stopped and havent touched alcohol in over a month. I have been hitting the gym and knuckling down with my life and work. At first i did the whole begging and crying and promising to change but with nothing but my words and tears to back me up and obviously this worked against me. However since then I have manned up, stopped texting and bugging her for about a week and abit. Earlier today she rang me twice and texted me asking her to ring her with a smiley face. I waited awhile then rung her back to return her call, i made sure i sounded happy and confident and busy and she did the same. then afetr a small conversation I asked how come she was calling and she said wants to see what i was upto tonight, i said nothing much and joked i might be washing my hair. she thens aid she wanted to come to our flat to pick some things up ( i obviously didnt want to hear this!) so i said i dont need to be there if your jsut coming to pick some more stuff up, she then got slightly funny and said she was planning on having a 'catch up' so i said well ok yeah i will be in. How should i play it? i dont want to get my hopes but is this a good sign? the fact she wanted me to be in is this a good thing? if anyone has any advise on how to play this and whether i shouldnt bother getting my hopes up i would be ever so grateful. Thanks and sorry about the long message!!
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