wilsonx Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 As the title states one of my good friends got dumped yesterday. He's extremely logical person and he's been blowing up my phone non stop for the past 2 days asking me all these questions that to him make no sense. He said he realized something. He had been dating her for the past 6+ years and for the past 4 years, he lost drive in life, he quit hanging out with his friends, he didn't care about school, he gained weight, he realized he was depressed so he just signed up to meet with a therapist. Today he was on the phone talking to me and telling me these things and he said all of these things to me. I thought about it and I was like damn, I was the same way for the past 2 years. Another thing that added up was the girl I had been talking to for the past month. She was the one I told the monkey grabbing on branch before letting go. Well her branch broke and she hit the ground and she told me that she doesnt like being on the ground she would be in a tree. Well she broke up with him, get this, because he lost drive in life, he was depressed, he never really wanted to do anything with her anymore, and he gained 50 pounds in the last 3 years of their relationship. So I was putting all these things together in my head, there's a pattern here I see it. He had her on a pedestal for most of the conversation because he wanted me to call her up and talk to her for him because she wasn't listening to his logic. Well, I was talking about a girl that works with us thats cute but a cutter that I would never date and he told me that his ex use to be a cutter before they entered into a relationship. She gave him all her razor blades a couple months after they started dating. I told him, he doesn't realize it yet but he dodged a huge bullet. A huge one. We joked around because my relationship lasted right at the 18 month mark. My body and my mind were fighting back at this point, I couldn't take it anymore. He was at the 6 year mark and I was joking saying how the eff did you survive so long and he said he was made of fire and rock. Holy ****... huge pattern... We were both dating the same type of hurt person. I know my ex's past, he knows his ex's past, I know that girl's baggage that I have been talking to for over the past month. My boss at work that I reference in the "I am no longer attracted to you" thread has the same baggage too. I am in no way faulting our ex's at all. There are some ****ed up people on this planet to do the things to these girls.
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