USCGAviator Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 Either way I think you pretty much blew this one. I would move forward from here and use this as a "learning experience". At this point I would be really surprised if you ended up getting this girl in the end. You would have to be super tactical to get her interested again.
USCGAviator Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 Ya and it was all set up for a dinner for my b day ugh.another thing should i also avoid from posting any fb status .reason i ask shes my friend on there . Post a status that has to do with her only if you want to nail your coffin shut completely.
Abhuman Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 (edited) Dude you are about to scare her off. Already walking on thin ice here. The texts you posted sound like begging almost, especially this one I said in time hopefully plus i can feel my face burning i knew i made a dumb comment then you took off so fast i was embaressed.look lets take it one day at a time we both enjoy each others company i just said the wrong thing but i did mean later its still to soon stop that, lol. A simple "my bad, I was getting ahead of myself there." can suffice. Just keep on living your life and don't talk to her. She knows you have a b-day and knows about the offer you made. So she may or may not contact you beforehand. Go out with or hang out with some friends or something for your b-day instead. Maybe later you can ask how she's doing and what she's been up to but don't apply any pressure or anything. Regardless of whether or not things work out you probably won't make these mistakes again or as easily. We all make them. It makes us cringe thinking back. But it makes us determined not to make them again as well. *brofist* and happy birthday. I never make birthday dates with women I haven't been with very long. It's too awkward anyways. Like happy birthday I barely know you yet! The woman I'm dating now (hoping to get exclusive with too) had a birthday the 2nd week we were talking and after 2 real dates and 1 overnighter. I didn't even try to ask if she wanted to hang with me for her birthday. Figured she'd want to spend time with her best friends. Which she did. I did call and talk with her for about 30 minutes though. It's all good. Edited September 16, 2011 by Abhuman
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