shygal1 Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 I've talked to a girl off the computer for about 6 months ... we became best friends .. and i am aware she is not over her ex. she lives far away and I made a very far and expensive trip to go to see her we fell in love .. but the trip was awkward although we did have a lot of fun ... she was reserved and seemed to avoid me.. days later i asked her if it was anything should could tell me. if it was a sexual thing like no attraction that we could be friends. she said no she wouldnt lead me on .. she calls me up drunk and constantly texts. and gets sexual out of nowhere. (this time drunk) She says she wants time which i am willing to give her ... but then she mad a statement that i am typically not what she is attracted to but maybe that is a good thing. . Due to this statement I am no longer talking to her ... Did I over react .. or do you think she is using me and waiting for someone better to come along? She has said she loved me but its gotten weird since after my visit. She is very unclear and when i suggest moving on she doesnt want to let me go
FitChick Posted September 15, 2011 Posted September 15, 2011 Don't waste your time on someone so far away who is so unstable. If you want someone crazy, I'm sure you can find her in your own country. Next!
creighton0123 Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 She seems to not want you as a boyfriend as much as she wants you as a backup plan. She's not respecting you. Move on. It sucks, I know... but unless there is mutual attraction it is wrong for both of you to keep things going. If you break up with her, that must be non-optional. You can't stay with her because she "won't let you go".
Paper Roses Posted September 23, 2011 Posted September 23, 2011 A chick telling you she wants time is always a bad thing. She likes you enough to keep you on standby so she'll have someone to call when she wasted and everyone else is hanging up on her. Pretty much what the guy who posted before me said. My advice is move along, nothing else there to see. Don't try the friend thing, it will not work. The friend thing only leads to more pain and you probably know that but maybe you need someone to say it to you.
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