shygal1 Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 I've talked to a girl off the computer for about 6 months ... we became best friends .. and i am aware she is not over her ex. she lives far away and I made a very far and expensive trip to go to see her we fell in love .. but the trip was awkward although we did have a lot of fun ... she was reserved and seemed to avoid me.. days later i asked her if it was anything should could tell me. if it was a sexual thing like no attraction that we could be friends. she said no she wouldnt lead me on .. she calls me up drunk and constantly texts. and gets sexual out of nowhere. (this time drunk) She says she wants time which i am willing to give her ... but then she mad a statement that i am typically not what she is attracted to but maybe that is a good thing. . Due to this statement I am no longer talking to her ... Did I over react .. or do you think she is using me and waiting for someone better to come along? She has said she loved me but its gotten weird since after my visit. She is very unclear and when i suggest moving on she doesnt want to let me go
nofool4u Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 She says she wants time which i am willing to give her ... but then she mad a statement that i am typically not what she is attracted to but maybe that is a good thing. . Due to this statement I am no longer talking to her ... Did I over react .. or do you think she is using me and waiting for someone better to come along? She has said she loved me but its gotten weird since after my visit. She is very unclear and when i suggest moving on she doesnt want to let me go you not talking to her should be that she wanted time to figure out who she really wants, as if she is the prize and you would have to sit there and wait for her, not because you aren't what she is typically attracted to. no, you didn't overreact. move on to greener pastures. this girl will just cause you grief.
Author shygal1 Posted September 14, 2011 Author Posted September 14, 2011 thank you .. i guess i was willing to give her time. because shes not over her ex ........ but i hold high value on myself which she does not want to let me go we have enjoyable conversation . . fun. . i was generous. and it sucks to have someone who keeps telling u they need time
Author shygal1 Posted September 14, 2011 Author Posted September 14, 2011 yes i dont think that matters though ... its the same siuation ..
The Outlaw Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 It'd be best if you just move on. It seems evident that she's really not entirely aware of what she wants.
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