scott1999 Posted May 10, 2004 Posted May 10, 2004 well, ive been working with this girl for a little over 5 months. the first time i saw her, i forgot what my name was. Its been getting worse everyday, i started to talk to her some within the first week there, and we talk all the time. There isnt anything i have not done to try to get her out of my mind. Heres a little more background. we are both 23 yrs old. she is just under 3 months older. she also has a child. and lives with current boyfriend. She doesnt act like she cares for him though. I have no idea who the guy is or what he's like or anything, but it doesnt sound like he cares for her either. On the other hand i dont have the best things going for me right now, i lost my drivers liscence(sorry for spelling), and so live with my parents right now. ive got this job and trying to get things together. and its going ok so far. everyday we work together, we talk. Just about life in general, things about work, pretty much everything. and the other day for example, she brought in her glasses. she never wears them because shes insecure about them, but they make her look very sexy. and i would ask her to put them on and shed blush and ask why. i told her how i thought she looked cute with them on, i remind you she's almost never wore them at work. so she wore them all night. one day, before i knew she had a bf and we were on break, we went out to her car to smoke a cig. we were both standing onthe side of her car i leaning on car, she standing straight infront of me about a foot away. and everytime i looked up in chat she was looking in my eyes. i almost start stuttering when i look into hers. it was so rough not to just kiss her then, what didnt help was it was just after sunset. but when i asked her one other day what she thought of me, she said, ' i think ive kinda told you' blushes and looks down then back to me. she and a friend of hers from work also keep inviting me to parties and things, and i cant attend bc of the no DL, no way there or home. i guess bc of my current situation im a little self concious. and feeling like a loser. and i just cant come to tell her how i feel about her. i think its probly pretty obvious when im around her though. but i dont know what to do. What the hells going on?
supermom Posted May 10, 2004 Posted May 10, 2004 You need to not pursue her until she is broken up with the boyfriend. They are a family and you do not want to be breaking up the child's family unit. Also, if she is willing to cheat on her bf, especially if he is the father of her child, then she will be willing to cheat on you. Not really a good situtation, in my opinion, for you to be in. Good luck
Author scott1999 Posted May 10, 2004 Author Posted May 10, 2004 the guy she's living with isnt the father to the child. and the the child doesnt call him dad or anything like that.
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