neomye Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 its been 3 weeks of no contact.. i ended it with the silent breakup because im not settling for crumbs... but i really cant accept that he's gone. im feeling so lonely i just wish thing could be like at the beginning. will i ever get through this? tell me its going to be ok..and that i will smile again.
solong123 Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 I went through the same thing and trust me, just get busy doing something. If you're religious at all, pray. If not, get with friends. You need to surround yourself with good people right now. That is what has gotten me through this whole mess. I know you miss him, trust me I have been there. But realize things AREN'T the same as they used to be and they won't go back to being like that either. Don't settle for the idea of having that person as you want, keep living your life. You're going to feel lonely from time to time but that's normal. It's all part of the process. Grieve when necessary, but enjoy the good times too. You will get through this and you will be okay.
pink glitter Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 its been 3 weeks of no contact.. i ended it with the silent breakup because im not settling for crumbs... but i really cant accept that he's gone. im feeling so lonely i just wish thing could be like at the beginning. will i ever get through this? tell me its going to be ok..and that i will smile again. I'm at just over 3 weeks nc after running back several times to just be used! It does get easier, each day but it is a slow process. I'm finding it hard to completely let go n accept its gone but I know I've got to. Be around friends or start a new hobby, I joined zumba cllasses, makes me feel better about myself n keeps me occupied. Your not alone I'm in the same boat hun, be strong x
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