Ron Mexico Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 literally this girl has been my girlfriend for 6 months but wont admit it. Always spends the night,acts like my gf spends all her free time with me,dates,etc. Well tonight at dinner i brought up the fact i pay for everything and she isnt my gf and it would be nice if she would reciprocate the care towards me and she flipped out and wouldnt talk to me the whole ride home and like a little kid kept saying "take me home" She's 28 fyi, she gets home and texts me an hr later "im sorry but you need to get over this its not going anywhere just let it go and youll be fine." this is in reference to the fact she keeps telling me she doesnt want a bf even though im pretty much hers. Ive had enough, but I love her and wish she would change, what do i do?
cerridwen Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 You can wish away, Ron Mexico, but she's not going to change and you deserve better. She's a jerk--an absolute JERK.
guccimane99 Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 Walk away. Its always the hardest thing but u will thank yourself in the end. Tell her that you need sometime away and to thank about what you want. A. go out and have fun post happy status so that she sees ur having fun. B. If for some odd reason you do see her smile and act like nothing is wrong. In the end she may not or may come back just try your best to move on.
carhill Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 what do i do? Date someone else. Learn about the nuance of someone 'letting you love them' Great life lesson.
Jynxx Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 OP, you said you had enough, so that should answer your question. Other than that, I'm curious... If you're basically having a relationship with dates and sex and she just doesn't want to call it that, why is that such a big deal? Are you affraid she's sleeping with someone else? Do you think she's more likely to let go off you the moment she finds a "better offer" if you don't make it official than if you make it official? If not, why not just be happy being with the person you like and doing all the things a couple does and leave it at that?
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