MashedPotatoes Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 I've been dating this girl for the past month and things are going very well. Although she's more traditional that what I'm used to, I really dig this girl and definitely see potential. In my opinion, it seems quite clear that we're "together"...i know she's not seeing anyone else and I have no desire to date other people. However, despite how obvious things may be, do all girls want/need to have the "talk?" I'm very interested in what others have to say.
Keridan Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 let her make the call if you are fine with things. She has the power to bring it up. That said, the conversation can't hurt if you are really concerned.
cerridwen Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 What does "DTR" stand for? "Down To Relate"? I honestly don't know this one. Anyway, I recommend you have the talk with her and any girl with whom you care to be exclusive. I would give the same advice to either sex. It's a good idea to be on the same page.
sm1tten Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 DTR means "Define the Relationship" and I don't think I've ever had this "talk." It's been more like, "oh so you're my boyfriend now?" "Yup." "Cool." No matter how obvious it is to you, it may not be obvious to her. I think most people need to have some defining of the relationship done in some way, at some point.
Zaphod B Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 For my ex it was quite a laugh. On facebook she changed her status to "in a relationship with..." and added my name. And it was like "oh, so we're in a relationship now?" She says "Yep". And I said "Cool!" and from then on we were exclusive.
Cee Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 My boyfriend and I were on the subway. And he made a reference to me being his girlfriend. And I said "Oh so I can call you my boyfriend?" And that was our DTR talk.
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