whatwhit Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 So I have been interested in the guy ever since may. we were talking for a little bit, but he decided he wasn't ready for a new relationship because of the fact that he just got out of a relationship with his. however, we still remained friends, and when i would see him we would i guess act couplish no we didn't have sex. recently i have mentioned to him that i like him, but wasn't really planning on doing anything about it. he also admitted that he liked me as well, but hes just scared to get into a relationship due to the fact he's leaving to go to grad school in a different state next fall. however, i recall a conversation we had at the beginning of the semester. he asked me if i plan on staying in the city i am from, when i'm graduating, what i'm planning on doing, and would i consider moving to another state. found that kind of strange. we together are going on a trip for the next weekend. in my brain i don't think a guy would want/ go on a trip thats a eight hour drive with someone who they consider as just a friend. i could be wrong tho. so this is what i want to do. i really like this kid. i was planning on seeing how the trip goes, and on the way back from the trip (that way in case he says no the trip won't be ruined) ask him on how he would feel on being exclusive. suggest on trying it out to see if things can work, and if they can't then they can't. if y'all do agree that i should do this how can i make it more successful in a positive reaction. thanks so much for reading this and have a good day!
Severely Unamused Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 I'd say to cut the cr*p and ask. That's what I did. Although, coming off so strongly could scare him away. Then it becomes a question of whether or not you are interested in somebody that will bail so quickly. Anyways, up to you.
Voldar Posted September 17, 2011 Posted September 17, 2011 I agree, if you feel that it is playing in the favor of working, then go for it. However, just remember that even if it doesn't work in the end, at least you tried and you won't have to wonder if it ever would have worked out. Good luck!
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