Kim922 Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 I am so sry its long. I made a previous post but I was crying so hard I couldn't get the full story out. So last week my ex left me for his ex gf(who broke up w/him) who is in the airforce based in Texas right now. Last week has been hell. I found myself crying every minute. I just felt miserable. That wednesday we spoke hoping to clear the air. He said the reason he chose her over me was simply because I nagged and I always had an attitude. (s/n: In my previous note I explained he treated me like s*** the whole time we were dealing with eachother. We were on and off the entire year. He was disrespectful, rude, had no consideration to my feeling whatsoever, and continued to speak to girls including his ex who he is madly in love with.) I tried to get him to understand number 1 the times when we had problems it was bcause u acted like a complete jerk to me so what in the hell did you expect. He went on to say why him and Jane Doe was so perfect for eachother because she never has an attitude and they never have to talk about there problem and if they did it was positive. :eek:BS. I tried to tell him has it ever occurred to him that she never had attitude because he never treated her the way he treated me. It sealed by saying "If you were more like Jane Doe then I will be with you" What! He called my yesterday off of a different number(which i presumed to block after we hung up) I continued to talk because I felt indifferent about the situation at the moment. I feels like the reason I am holding on because he keeps saying he will never consider being my boyfriend ever again(not that it will ever happen again.) because I was crazy with my emotion etc. I take great offense to that because he treated me badly and never gave me a fair chance. He was emotionally disturb because Jane doe left him leaving him hopeless that they will ever be with each other again. And that is why he lashed out on me but he refuse to see. In all he always wanted to be with her. When were together or not I was very good to him. That is what hurts me the most. On that Wednesday(not yesterday 9/12) He ended the convo by saying Im crazy, i always want to talk, I always have an attitude and that why he will never be my boyfriend again. He said we can be friend and that he loved and hung up. I was doing fine( I the feeling of indifference) but now I feel myself falling into the pool of sadness again(...basically im half way in the pool) Im tired of crying and I dnt want to go back. His job has so many different ext. that he can call me from. Yesterday I told him i dnt want to be friends right now. He is taking it lightly and I am try not be rude. Help?
Author Kim922 Posted September 13, 2011 Author Posted September 13, 2011 Do anyone have an opinion? It will be appreciated:(
TheDovic Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 I don't know what you want Kim. Do you want rid of him? If so change your number and stay 100% no contact. It's really not fair that he keeps contacting you, I don't think he knows what he wants! Maybe he needs the reassurance you're still around in case it doesn't work with the ex but you deserve much better than that!
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