quietGuy13 Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 The only singles event aside from Night Clubs(which i dont' do) and crazy night life stuff that is intended for outgoing talkative people is A Singles mixeer for 50 year olds!!!! I just called and they told me "We only do for people over 50" I'm in my 30s. I'm a quiet person. I dont know how to meet singles. It's very hard, most women my age are not single anymore. And the women out there in the street are all loud and talktaive and are not interested in quiet guys. Even when i went to dance lessons, all the women were loud and just hang around with the loud cocky/ people after class. I really dont know how I can meet single women. If there was Singles mixer for people my agee , i would try it. but there isn't any. What can I do? I'm getting older. My Dr said "dont look, let her find you"... Well that's just cause he's married, he doesn't have to worry about it. But to this day in my life NOT LOOKING hasn't worked. That's why i haven't had GF ever. SO i'm sorry dr, but I have to do something, not just stay there doing nothing. Problem is, i dont know how/what to do. Classes and all that, which people h ave told me, dont work because as soon as i go .. All the girls will be taken by the loud /talkative/outgoing/player guys. I've seen it always. i've experienced it always. The good speakers, prefer to be with the good speakrs. I'm not good at speakng and i'm just quiet. So going to classes to meet women doesn'twork. I mean you'll meet if you end up doing an assignment together but since i speak like a 6 year old they won't like me. AS HAS ALWAYS BEEN. Dating sites don't work either. I dont know.........what to do. Then like i said in my other posts, i try talking to foreign girls in bus stops but that has .1% chance of working...they don't like to be talked to by strangers, and even if they do...they dont want to have a relationship with strangers if they gonna go back to their country in 2 weeks or whatever. Is there any singles groups were People who are not party types/talkative types/otuoging types can meet people? I heard church has some singles groups but they want the people to be religious and i'm not.
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