quietGuy13 Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 Is it worth trying to talk to foreign girls that think all stranger guys are bad and rapists? I mean these girls, i talk to them just say hi, and they are like WALLS. i mean really, they pretend i'm not there and dont even make eye contact. A few times before i've met these wall girls, and i said Hello, 2 times and they were like I didn't even exist. Anyways, i sometimes just try to do little small talk with them even though i'm shy, but i try but I'm noticing most times it's a failure because they are WALLS and they seem to think all strangers are rapists. If they dont respond the first time i shouldn't keep trying right? THat sucks but i guess that's how it is. I wonder why they come to America then, I thought they would like to meet nice people and I'm a nice guy.
Feelin Frisky Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 They may just not want to mix. Some ethncicities are very zeno. Then again, maybe you just look like a rapist.
Author quietGuy13 Posted September 14, 2011 Author Posted September 14, 2011 So i found the Facebook pages of the girls that ignored me and lied to me. (yeah they gave me their facebook name so i kwo it) So guess what. Those that didn't want to talk to me and wh lied about having BFs etc. I saw their galleries and posts and friends. The had Bunch of male friends( And one of them sent me a final email saying "sory i cant be your friend. i cant email men cause i have a BF" ), outgoing parties and clubbing. In their photo galleries i see them in outgoing parties and clubbing and drinking and doing sexy stuff. et ce etc.. bunch of friends etc. So yeah, i know that when i meet them in bus stop or wherever, they don't like me so they lie to me.. And even without knowing me , they can smell that I'm not a cocky talktative guy so they determine they dont like me since they all like cocky guys. So that's why they lie and dont want to even talk to me. Others are really scared of Foreign guys who talk to them all of the sudden. Yeah, and they're not afriad of the outgoing /cocky foreigners they meet in their class. I dont see what the difference is between a cocky foreign guy who they meet in class VS me who they meet in a bus stop. Nothing! Ther's no difference, in fact those cocky ones are often players . So i just think these girls love Player/Cocky type guys
omkara Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 Is it worth trying to talk to foreign girls that think all stranger guys are bad and rapists? Daf**k. What are they, 12?
Author quietGuy13 Posted September 14, 2011 Author Posted September 14, 2011 The foreign girls are usually here to study english so anywhere between 18 to their 30's
Shaun-Dro Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 The foreign girls are usually here to study english so anywhere between 18 to their 30's I never had a problem with foreign girls. I've actually messed around with quite a few over the years, ranging from Brazilian to Canadian and so on. They've always complimented me on my accent and what not. They even found my humor strange, funny, and intriguing. I'm not sure what your problem is. Maybe you come across as too forward and it makes them nervous? The best way to start things up with foreign women is ask about their native countries and feign interest in wanting to know as much as possible about it. This tactic should definitely work.
ja123 Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 Is it worth trying to talk to foreign girls that think all stranger guys are bad and rapists? I mean these girls, i talk to them just say hi, and they are like WALLS. i mean really, they pretend i'm not there and dont even make eye contact. A few times before i've met these wall girls, and i said Hello, 2 times and they were like I didn't even exist. Anyways, i sometimes just try to do little small talk with them even though i'm shy, but i try but I'm noticing most times it's a failure because they are WALLS and they seem to think all strangers are rapists. If they dont respond the first time i shouldn't keep trying right? THat sucks but i guess that's how it is. I wonder why they come to America then, I thought they would like to meet nice people and I'm a nice guy. In some countries the men are so aggressive that the women truly are scared. They probably haven't adjusted to being in America. They also might be dealing with deeply instilled cultural issues and feel like they'd be seen as a sl*t if they were to talk to a man. I knew a young woman who left her family because she didn't want to wear the hijab and she's now dating someone from here. However, she came over as a young girl/teen and made the adjustment better.
AHardDaysNight Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 Seriously, dude? Stop stalking these women. They aren't entitled to talk to you, any more than you're entitled to talk to someone you don't like.
LurkerXX Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 You are going down the wrong path-rather than trying to hone in on women who you think won't pick up on your insecurities, people less acclimated to our culture, you need to work on your insecurities. When you look for empathy for not being able to get a good physical training program yourself, and then lash out in angry criticism in a thread of why women who are not trim do not try harder, there is an issue there; don't be deliberately blind to it. Your anger and frustration may likely be the only thing that is translating to these women.
delilah123 Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 So i found the Facebook pages of the girls that ignored me and lied to me. (yeah they gave me their facebook name so i kwo it) So guess what. Those that didn't want to talk to me and wh lied about having BFs etc. I saw their galleries and posts and friends. The had Bunch of male friends( And one of them sent me a final email saying "sory i cant be your friend. i cant email men cause i have a BF" ), outgoing parties and clubbing. In their photo galleries i see them in outgoing parties and clubbing and drinking and doing sexy stuff. et ce etc.. bunch of friends etc. So yeah, i know that when i meet them in bus stop or wherever, they don't like me so they lie to me.. And even without knowing me , they can smell that I'm not a cocky talktative guy so they determine they dont like me since they all like cocky guys. So that's why they lie and dont want to even talk to me. Others are really scared of Foreign guys who talk to them all of the sudden. Yeah, and they're not afriad of the outgoing /cocky foreigners they meet in their class. I dont see what the difference is between a cocky foreign guy who they meet in class VS me who they meet in a bus stop. Nothing! Ther's no difference, in fact those cocky ones are often players . So i just think these girls love Player/Cocky type guys your probelm is probably that you are approaching them at a bus stop. if i was approached by a guy and i was by myself at a bus stop and the guy seemed a little creepy (sorry but you must do if they are being so rude, if you were super hot, fact of life is girls wouldn't be so creeped out) i'd be worried. i don't like being approached in a situation when i feel vunerable (like at bus stops alone, when I'm on a bus and someone comes down and sits next to me so i can't move away, when i'm waiting on a emptyish street corner for a friend etc) approach me in a bar, at a cafe, at work, at university no worries. they are socially appropriate times for me Maybe that's just me though! who knows maybe you have bad luck? maybe you smell? maybe you are super ugly? seriously it's hard to come up with explanations. I highly doubt that all foriegn women (i.e. everyone who isn't american - and for the record i'm australian) doesn't like being approached by you just because they are scared of all men, then suprise suprise have male friends.
coolheadal Posted September 14, 2011 Posted September 14, 2011 Forget them most can't speak English too well plus most are just rude. They like to stick with their own kind, so they can go to the club and dance all night long plus drink on top of that. Mostly on the weekend.
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