mridul_chajilee Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 After a long time i am again in this great forum. After that breakup,i moved on and busy with my works and now its 2years of NC with my Ex.I dont know anything about my Ex within this 2year,but sometime and some days I terribly missed her but i managed that pain.I tried to enter in many relation but i failed,coz she was unique,til now no other girl replace her for me. Recently when i visited my home place i got a info that my ex is going to marry this next month(october) after hearing that news i am again upset,my heart beats twice(Trachy cardia).And now i am just a helpless,no where to run. Plz help what should i do coz i even can't go to her coz she hates me like enemy. Thanks.
Besmy Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 Gosh, after 2 years you are still thinking of her? Have a look at my thread about an ex calling me after a year > here. Even a few months can be too long to mend things. After a break up there is a "window of time and opportunities" to mend things. Once that window of time has elapsed it becomes almost impossible (maybe in some rare cases...). I don't know whether she dumped you or you her, but for your own health and well-being it is really time to move on as she has. A big hug
Author mridul_chajilee Posted September 13, 2011 Author Posted September 13, 2011 Bro,i am missing her after 2years becoz our relation was for 11years,after 11years she dumped me due some fights between us about the drinking and abusing her.But my Soul say that even she will not be able to live happily without me.
Besmy Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 Oki then 11 years is a lot of time and yes, now I understand it better. If she wasn't going to get married I would have suggested to get in touch with her but now I don't think this is a good idea, I don't think you want to congratulate her on her wedding?! I am so sorry for you.
Author mridul_chajilee Posted September 13, 2011 Author Posted September 13, 2011 No i am not going to wish her,but my soul is always ready to wish her and wil wil wish her always.I wil not be available in her wedding and will out of station. God bless her.
TheDovic Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 If she hates you like an enemy she must think you did something bad to her. Did you, and if so did you apologise for this? I suppose one potentially significant sign is that she HATES you. This isn't necessarily a bad thing because it means she may still has some feelings for you. Hate is NOT the opposite of love, indifference is. If she hates you it is because she cares about you in some way. If she didn't then she wouldn't give a **** what you did. So maybe apologise, before it really is too late!
Author mridul_chajilee Posted September 13, 2011 Author Posted September 13, 2011 I apolized bro,knee down and touch her leg in open stree .But she told me that if i wil come back as JESUS even then she will never accept me.
TheDovic Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 Nightmare dude, seems like she's gone then. Would recommend some type of therapy then as this could eat away at you for a long time. I'm in therapy at the minute and it's really helping. Hope you consider this. Take care bro!
Author mridul_chajilee Posted September 13, 2011 Author Posted September 13, 2011 What type of therapy bro?
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