A7X Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 Alright so I spent 1 month trying to win her back, after a 1 year relationship. things seemed to be going great, she called and asked our weekend plans, I said it was a surprise, she sounded excited. About 2 hours later she text me saying it's over, it's time to move on, that I should date other ppl and that she'll be doing so soon. How does one have such a quick turnaround about their feelings regarding someone? I'm trying to move on, I'm day 6 of NC, what bothers me most and gives me a hard time is as stated above, I just don't get it.. How do you go from interested and happy to GTFO of my life? Yes I want a second chance and had all the signs that I was going to get that chance, obviously I was extatic, now confused and looking for guidance.
Author A7X Posted September 13, 2011 Author Posted September 13, 2011 Oh and she blocked me on FB, probably for me not to msg her since I was sending her messages looking for answers, some things are just to long to text. Yet I'm still tagged in pictures of her albums, why am I not deleted? And why is she still friends with my best friends?
Dblock10 Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 sadly we never get all the answers. she prob doesnt have them herself. and one day it would be because of x then the next it would be because of y
silly_panda Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 Alright so I spent 1 month trying to win her back, after a 1 year relationship. things seemed to be going great, she called and asked our weekend plans, I said it was a surprise, she sounded excited. About 2 hours later she text me saying it's over, it's time to move on, that I should date other ppl and that she'll be doing so soon. How does one have such a quick turnaround about their feelings regarding someone? I'm trying to move on, I'm day 6 of NC, what bothers me most and gives me a hard time is as stated above, I just don't get it.. How do you go from interested and happy to GTFO of my life? Yes I want a second chance and had all the signs that I was going to get that chance, obviously I was extatic, now confused and looking for guidance. The sentance that I had bolded... I think it mean something... There is already another guy lined up and waiting for her... What are the sign(s) that you get that tells you that you got a second chance..? Mind sharing with us..?
Author A7X Posted September 13, 2011 Author Posted September 13, 2011 I didn't get the second chance per say, but I got I miss you, I love you, we'll make beautiful kids, etc... Anyway nothing of this matters anymore, I learned last night that she is gone to Italy with the guy that ruined my last relationship.
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