sacramento Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 Hi I am a first time poster hear and just wanted to hear someone else's opinion on the matter. Last year i went off to college in a different state and meet my first gilfriend and we feel in love in the first week of school. It was a really great relationship with little arguemnts and things. We had one argument toward the end of the year during a small concert which made her upset because i left but i didnt think it was a big deal. The next night we were fine and we even had some sexual contact like we had before but not sex. Then when i went home as she did also things were fine as well. We talked everynight and even talked about having sex for the first time when we got back together. Most of it inisiated by her. But i guess since i am a shy guy and like keeping to myself when at home things changed. I love video games and got really into it for about two weeks and didnt have the same talks everynight because i was distracted since i didnt get them at school. then on our 9th month anniverssary we even had phone sex and it was great. she even initaited it. But then next day she breaks up with me saying she doesnt think she can do anything more for me and felt pressured. We still talk everynight for about an hour and a half and we both still say i love you and sometimes accidentally says girlfriend/boyfriend but then later says multiple times you are my best friend right? it is just confusing and will be going back to see her in a week at school and we talk about hanging out everyday as friends. But she hurt me and im not sure she knows it because she always brings up the things im showing her im trying to change. Like not yelling or caring about her when she was sad sometimes. Will it be different at school and i plan on doing a lot of nice things for her and show her but am confused on some thimgs. anybody have an personal thoughts on things i can do to get her back? and if it continues to be just friends which i dont want just using that to get back together wud it be bad to give her an ultimatum even though she hates those of relationship or nothing?
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