jameswinters Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 I have been seeing this girl for couple weeks, and we had couple dates. We see each other somewhat often at least 3 times a week because we go to the same dance class. Everytime I see her in person, she is warm, and also flirty sometimes, but most of the time when she talks to me she does not look at me directly. She tends to stare down or sideway. I am not sure what this indicates. Any comments or thoughts? Also we used to talk on the phone for hours 2-3 times a week for about 3 weeks before we started to see each others. What gets me speculating is the fact that she does not answer my call as often as she used to be, but she would give me a reason. Text messages also short and a bit longer then usual to reply. Most of text are with very little intention for conversation. We went into each other at the mall with her girl friends this weekend. Again, she didn't look at me directly when she talked to me. When I was paying for my stuff, she came over and asked me if there is anything to do after this. I was shocked for a moment, so I said I need to do a little shopping and need to buy a pair of shoes and asked her if she wanted to come with me, and she said yes. So right when we got out from A|X, she got a call and her friends were also waiting for her outsite, so I walked away to give her privacy on the phone, and I knew things were not looking good as I was waiting for her. After her done with her phone call, she came back to me and said that she can't go with me and she had to stay with her friends and she also has another friend coming. So I unhappily said that's fine have fun with her friends. A few mintues later she texted me saying that she was sorry and she had to stay with her fiends because they were shy. I really can't tell how she feels about me and I desperately wanting to know. Somestime she is warm and sometime she is cold as stone. Any comments from the ladies would be greatly appreciated. Thank you
coolheadal Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 There is someone else in the picture now. Signs of this she gets a call, and she doesn't look directly into your face when she talks to you. The interest in you is is going. The other guy who she's talking to is getting her full attention. You need to ask her who's that your talking to on the cell phone. If it's not a guy she would tell you who. If it is a guy she would say none of your business or try to same it nobody but it is somebody.
Imageiko Posted September 13, 2011 Posted September 13, 2011 If she's shy it could be a nervous thing, not confident enough to look you in the eye. Looking down is also a body language tick for lying but in this case it seems like a nervous/shy thing. I'm not 100% sure though.
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