Mangomonkey Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 I find myself feeling disappointed with women more and more everyday for some of the things that go on. When i date women i like to have fun and see where it leads. Ultimately i would want a relationship but with a woman that is good for me. Most women i come across claim they want to same thing and talk like they do. They want a relationship, want love, blah blah. However its these same women also are screwing other guys while they date me. I'm sure other guys can relate. I got to the point where it just doesn't surprise me. I've had girls chase me because of the clothes i wear, and the money i have. And it was obvious. I want to be the kind of man who treats a woman right. All the women i come across claim they want a man like me but will bone someone else or just try to use me for money. And I have reached a point where it just dont surprise me anymore. What aggravates me is when these same women will complain about how there are no more decent guys left when they passed him up for a guy who just hits it and quit. I'm starting to wonder if there is even a point in affection and love anymore. It seems real pointless. Same goes for guys. I got friends who lies to women, manipulate them, or somewhere along that line and they have women jumping over walls for them. Its crazy if you ask me. I got no problem with it personally. But i do get aggravated when a woman will approach me speaking of love but bones another guy the day before. One of my player friends once told me that. My issue is that i give people more credit than they deserve. I believe people in general are smart enough to make decent decisions. But its like everyone is out for themselves and just point fingers at the other. People are selfish and they just like to sugar coat it. I've dealt with many women. Most of em were cheaters. I knew many guys. Most of them were cheaters also. When someone comes around and tries to do things the honest way. It fails. It always fails. Oh well. That is life a guess. I try my best not to be bitter. I keep love in my heart for the next girl. Because i know that in the end. I'm a decent person. deep down. and i deserve a woman who deserves me. It just saddens me a bit. I dont have alot of standards. All i ask for is beauty, honesty, faithfulness, and love. And that is impossible to find. I really believe that.
Author Mangomonkey Posted September 12, 2011 Author Posted September 12, 2011 In the end i think people only want sex and money from each other. They just try to sugar coat it to make it sound nice.
coolheadal Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 No much you can do about it.. Don't go after girls who cheat or have more than one guy friend. Most of them do though. Go from you to him then to another one then to another one. As for money don't show off too much as those type of women don't care about you they care about what they can get from you. Sometimes the plain Jane type girl is the best one. Those that don't care about money and looks works out well. Players will be players always.. Their game is to have as many women as they can master.
Author Mangomonkey Posted September 12, 2011 Author Posted September 12, 2011 I do go after different types of girls. Plain jane. religious, exotic, open minded. Its all the same. Even when i believed that some of them would really be different. Its like its all a show. I've reach a point where i just wanna f**k em now and screw all the other s**t. But honestly. I just stopped caring.
carhill Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 At our base, we're all selfish, self-involved creatures who primarily exist to propagate our species. Whatever 'humanity' evolves is purely circumstantial and transient. Think about how you/I were as two-year olds and imagine we weren't socialized/molded in any way. That's the base I'm talking about. Some of us take a more substantial and long-lived vacation from that base than others, dependent upon our psychology and the effects of how it was subsequently formed from that base model. TBH, if my parents had been blowing sunshine up my ass from a young age and telling me what a great man I was and giving me everything I wanted and the little girls were swooning over my baby blues, I'd probably be more of a self-involved prick than I already am
coolheadal Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 Your not meeting the right type of women or your mindset has change where you don't really care about what your doing OP. See I care I would never put myself in a position like you have said. Not going to happen. If such a women is out there like that then I just move on. Don't need that trash to deal with. I myself found a nice women but looking at FB with one shot image she's looks like a plain Jane. Did some digging and sure enough her first name has a alias attached to her last name. So there are two of them but it's the same girl. One nice and sweet and the other is dirty party animal you sticks her butt out in poses doing that sexy look. Shame on her. I guess she was keeping that side away from me. But that means she a female player type. Don't need that! Still they won't change. There are many girls out there that are just nice and follow the rules layout by their folks with good up bringing but those are hard to fine today. What we have today are girls that will have sex very early and parent that don't care because they did the same thing when they were young. I'll avoid them even it if take so long to find one that's not like them!
Author Mangomonkey Posted September 13, 2011 Author Posted September 13, 2011 I hear what your two are saying. I just reached my breaking point. The last girl was the only girl in my life that i knew i wanted a relationship with. All the others i kinda already knew it would be doomed to fail. Even if they weren't bad themselves but it was a intuition kind of thing. I can go on and on but i think ima cut it here.
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