JaneDoe35 Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 I am divorced now. I do not want to reconcile with my ex-husband. He broke my heart a thousand times over, my daughter's too. But I have forgiven and we are on great terms. Better for everyone. I have to admit that I do find it amusing how badly it ended with him and the OW. They can't even speak to each other anymore. She was quite nasty to me and sent me odd messages now and then. Generally telling me how happy they were together and about the children they were going to have. I have heard from various sources that it wasn't all happy days. Public bickering was quite common between them for example. Her nickname was 'wicked witch' amongst his friends too. She despised me more than I despised her!?!?. She did everything she could to stop my ex seeing me and/or his daughter. I guess I just wanted to let all those betrayed spouses know that once an affair is out in the open and the new loved up couple have to face the real world there is no guarantee that things will be smooth sailing. I think the added drama from how the relationship started probably doesn't help. I always had images of he and she living a romantic movie style life....I was wrong. Knowing this doesn't erase all the pain but it makes me feel slightly better.
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