ConfusedGuy28 Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 Sort of a two part question. Buddy of mine introduced me to a couple of girls one day. We all went out for dinner, had a great time, etc. The next day I saw them at work and got their number and they agreed to go out with me and my friends one Friday night. Friday came, and they canceled (moving into their new place, didn't want to get trashed the night before). No worries with that. The girl I like told me "I'll text you tomorrow and we'll do something" - that text never came, so I left it at that. Fast forward to this weekend. I threw a bbq and invited them over. They showed up, took them up to my rooftop, etc. Me and the girl I like got a few minutes to talk alone, and the tone of our convo changed from being goofy (in the group setting) to more "so how've you been....what are you doing now....etc). She gives me a hug goodbye (an actual hug, compared to the foot apart hug she gave everyone else) and said "hey so I'm meeting up with friends, but you should come out, I'll text you where I am" This time - she texts me twice....but I was out with my buddies and missed the text. I texted her this morning but we didn't talk much (we were both out). ------------------ 1) How should I proceed? I was thinking about calling her up in a couple days - finding out when she's on call, and maybe seeing if she wanted to grab some food with me and this cool little joint a few blocks from me. 2) The weird thing is - my buddy who introduced us - really doesn't seem to want the two of us talking. I asked him if she was single, and he was like "oh sorry bro, she was dating a friend of mine from school" (very vague answer - the 'was' - a little weird choice of words). I then told him she was coming to the bbq and he was like "what, that's surprising. I wouldn't think she would come. hmm. that's weird" and then when I asked him if he wanted to come out with me and meet up with her he was like "yo bro, her friends are a little weird. i don't really feel comfortable going, she's cool, but her friends aren't" ----------------- Now - my buddy is in a serious LTR (going on 3 years) so it's not like he is into this girl. But, I'm really getting the feeling I'm being cock blocked. She seems willing to do stuff with me, seemed to be trying to figure out if I was single ("soo, I love your place. do you live alone?"). Even my girl friend thinks he's being weird about it. The back story being - the muslim girl I dated knows him (he's muslim) and she's been telling people that I was sooo in love with her and she was fighting off my advances and all this other bull****. It makes me want to tell him what's really up - but (a) I gave her my word i wouldn't (b) the repercussion for her would be rather bad, and I'm not the kind of person to get involved in petty games (even though this isn't petty, i feel it would turn into something like that). My girl friend thinks the same thing (i told her about because she's trustworthy and isn't muslim so doesn't care either way).
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