Lucky555 Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 So my boyfriend of 10 months... Everyone basically told me to end it. I was going to but he drastically turned his behavior around. I mentioned how he didn't make time for me: two weekends in a row he wants to spend his day off with me! He told me today he is putting me in his calendar for a day off. He started expressing himself: saying he could cuddle with me all day. Kissing me, hugging me, and messaging everyday throughout the week. I had back off because I was planning to end it..I think he discovered he could seriously lose me if he didn't step it up. He also is asking to take me out anywhere i want to go. However I am happy with this change but it's hard to believe after so many months he didn't really try his hardest like now. Also still no talk of an introduction to family I also feel it is on shaky ground because I want a future! I see no evidence of him including me..there is talk about what kind of house he wants to build and how he would put an extra closet for me in it..however it's unrealistic for at least 6 years! I feel like it's bs. To keep me around I'm still not sure what to do. I care about him, loved the past few times we were together and how he treated me so well.. But I'm concerned about him not introducing me to family and him not including me his "life". I feel as I it's still "I". Like I said he made a large purchase on something and never included me or asked my opinion. Was he thinking of a future? No he is in "I" mode :/ I'm just not sure what to do...
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