zephiran Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 So I met a girl a little over a week ago and have been talking to her since. I find her amazing, she's cute and really nice. Anyways, I was contemplating chasing after her to try to date her but now I'm not so sure. I got one of our mutual friends to find out what she thought about me (she doesn't know the mutual friend was giving the info to me, and I only used the mutual friend once to get the info I needed so she won't catch on or anything by me asking the friend to talk to her again) and now I don't know if I should just give up or not. Right from the start, when the mutual friend told her that I was talking about her, she wanted to know what I had said. She had asked the friend numerous times what I had said about her. Upon finding out that I find her cute and nice, she said "aww he's really nice, but I don't want to date anyone right now. I don't want anything with anyone. I just want to be friends with everyone" she added that I look like a nice friend and that she wanted to have friendship at a minimum. I don't know if I should just keep befriending her and see where it goes from there or just give up? I find it odd if she has completely no feelings for me that she would want to know so badly about what I had said about her. I'm thinking maybe if I just keep being friendly, she'll end up deciding she wants to date me and that she just can't decide right now because she's only known me about a week. It's not like she's throwing just me into the friend zone, she said she just doesn't want to date anyone right now. I know there's no way I'm in the friend zone yet, since I'm not even her friend yet because I've only met her a week ago. I'm just scared I'll end up in the friend zone if I don't just give up right now.
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