Shaun-Dro Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 It's because they're not putting in the same effort that the men are trying to do. Not to mention, the roles being reversed has also hurt both parties, but women buy into the media pretense so relationships suffer, expecting men to be everything seen on television and in the movies, and when they realize the men don't live up to the fantasy, women bail! They go single, grow old and alone, and cry themselves to sleep at night. They also turn lesbian just to punish us; how pathetic . And then refuse to accept that men are visual creatures and will always be, so they act as if because a guy wants to get to know them, it's only to get what's inside their panties and nothing more. This disqualifies potential good mates. I see this situation time and again. And it's painful to watch and it's also depressing because I don't see things getting better for us. I even have my hands full with my ex accusing me today of just wanting to nail her, although I never gave her reason to believe that. This and other garbage are the excuses you ladies use to escape us! It's wicked, plain and simple.
Janesays Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 I know! We totally suck! You should go gay to punish us like we do to you!!!! That'll show us!
D-Lish Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 I know! We totally suck! You should go gay to punish us like we do to you!!!! That'll show us! It's because we couldn't use our restraint or reasoning skills and just had to take that bite out of "that apple". The world's been a horrible place ever since because of what we did.
Janesays Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 It's because we couldn't use our restraint or reasoning skills and just had to take that bite out of "that apple". The world's been a horrible place ever since because of what we did. I'm...so ashamed.
samsungxoxo Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 I guess maybe going gay would be the solution to your problem if you're having a hard time with women. You can always find men instead.
coolheadal Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 Why can't women be themselves I am saying.. Why lie about how they feel and just make us their guy friend so they can have 100 or more guy friends to choose from. I hate this, and because of this I won't stand for any women who believe they should have more than one lover or man in their life. One good in bed one not. One has more money and the other one not. Like they can't find the perfect guy to be with. The party girl who goes out every weekend with crew and forgets about the guy she has. You the guy wait for her return and don't know how many new guy friend she has now racked up. She tells you she can come and go as she pleases. You have not control over me we're not married yet! I can test the waters and see what fish I can catch in my net. This is what goes on for we me to have to deal with. Some me just let it happen while some don't. These girls just say whatever to everything you say to them. No respect no more.
D-Lish Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 I'm...so ashamed. Me too:( Never should have listened to that damned talking snake.
CarrieT Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 They also turn lesbian just to punish us; how pathetic . Yep - the entire Lesbian community exists just to spite men. :laugh:
phineas Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 It's because we couldn't use our restraint or reasoning skills and just had to take that bite out of "that apple". The world's been a horrible place ever since because of what we did. I'm...so ashamed. Look, what's done is done. but, you naughty girls still need to punished. It's the principle of the matter. Now, come here so I can bend you over my knee. Me too:( Never should have listened to that damned talking snake. .....talking snake.....yeah, I think i'm done here......
ScienceGal Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 (edited) Why can't women be themselves I am saying.. Why lie about how they feel and just make us their guy friend so they can have 100 or more guy friends to choose from. I hate this, and because of this I won't stand for any women who believe they should have more than one lover or man in their life. One good in bed one not. One has more money and the other one not. Like they can't find the perfect guy to be with. The party girl who goes out every weekend with crew and forgets about the guy she has. You the guy wait for her return and don't know how many new guy friend she has now racked up. She tells you she can come and go as she pleases. You have not control over me we're not married yet! I can test the waters and see what fish I can catch in my net. This is what goes on for we me to have to deal with. Some me just let it happen while some don't. These girls just say whatever to everything you say to them. No respect no more. There are good people, and there are less good people. There are people who are mature and know what they want, and there are people who are immature and have no clue. This is not restricted to a particular gender. It sounds like you've been burned. There are good women out there though (raised hand). But, you need to be the type of man that a good woman would want to be with (e.g., a guy that doesn't generalize and stereotype all women). Work out being mad at the specific women that have treated you like crap, and move on. Edited September 12, 2011 by ScienceGal
Author Shaun-Dro Posted September 12, 2011 Author Posted September 12, 2011 There are good people, and there are less good people. There are people who are mature and know what they want, and there are people who are immature and have no clue. This is not restricted to a particular gender. It sounds like you've been burned. There are good women out there though (raised hand). But, you need to be the type of man that a good woman would want to be with (e.g., a guy that doesn't generalize and stereotype all women). Work out being mad at the specific women that have treated you like crap, and move on. Easier said than done. The percentage of good women today is very small. I'm not being negative; just speaking the facts. LS and other sites are the perfect evidence of what's going on out here.
OliveOyl Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 I'm really tempted to turn into a lesbian after reading this thread. Should I cut my hair really short?
ScienceGal Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 Easier said than done. The percentage of good women today is very small. I'm not being negative; just speaking the facts. LS and other sites are the perfect evidence of what's going on out here. LS does not support that the percentage of good women is small. I could angrily say the same thing about men, but I don't blame an entire gender for me not striking it lucky in love. Be angry, be frustrated, be lonely, be whatever, but don't blame the entire female population. That's just absurd. It seems to me that in terms of your life, your locus of control is external. You feel like the things that happen to you (including meeting these women) isn't your fault. You feel the "blame" lies outside of yourself. You need to develop an internal locus of control where you take accountability for your own actions and realize that many of the things that happen to you are because of YOU.
D-Lish Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 Easier said than done. The percentage of good women today is very small. I'm not being negative; just speaking the facts. LS and other sites are the perfect evidence of what's going on out here. Are you Woggle's alter ego? I'm getting sick of these anti-female threads. You're looking for a good woman, yet you hate women. Most of the "good women" out there wouldn't give a mysogynist like you a chance.... They'd see right through you and your hatred.
thatone Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 I'm really tempted to turn into a lesbian after reading this thread. Should I cut my hair really short? it won't work. i think short hair on women is sexy. i can't be the only one.
dasein Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 It took me a long time to learn this, but if women you are involved with aren't putting the same level of effort into the relationship, you have to step in, lead the dance and let them know tactfully what is expected. The good ones will shape up, it's likely the last guy they were with was an ass-kisser, that other men out there are doing for them without expecting anything, and it's easy to see how they get complacent. You have to train them to an extent, and to anyone who thinks that is offensive, stow it, there are plenty of "training your BF" books out and about. If they don't respond, dump, but if you didn't make your expectations clear, you can't fault them for sitting back and attempting to have the same setup they have had with so many chump dudes in their lives. Hell I would too if I were a woman. And not to sound materialistic, but one way to tell is the thoughtfulness of their gifts (not the expense). When you make an effort to get them something special, and they "fart out" some crappy excuse for ill-conceived presents your way, it's dump time! I used to think the gift imbalance was "just the way it is" No more. I remember especially the one who got me a generic coffee table book with the reek of "bargain bin" on it (probably a regift) one year when I had gotten her something really special and customized to her. Decided that was the last straw for putting up with "the male-female gift imbalance". Got rid of her within a month after having my way with her to the point of boredom. I have some friends whose women spend cash on their presents and get them really cool, thoughtful things, and I'm sure some of you get your BF/husband nice thoughtful things, and I'm equally sure some dude gave you a mr. coffee or a vacuum one year. Spare me, we all know those are exceptions and that the gift imbalance is almost always in favor of the woman... that is unless you are trying to keep some guy way out of your league on the hook, then you all seem to have a way of ante-ing up with the Tag Heuers real fast. LOL
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 I know! We totally suck! You should go gay to punish us like we do to you!!!! That'll show us! Hysterical response!
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 Shaun-Dro, repeat after me. Women are people. Women are people. Men are people and women are people too. We have a very human experience. Just like men. We love, we hate, we have anger, we have happiness. Our fathers die, just like men's fathers' die. We get stuck in floods just like men get stuck in floods. We go to war, just like men go to war. We get cancer, just like men get cancer. Our children die, just like men's children die. Our husbands and boyfriends fall out of love on us, just like wives and girlfriends fall out of love with their man. We cheat, just like men sometimes cheat too. We struggle with our body image just like men struggle with theirs. I think you get what I'm putting down. Right now your posts shows that you do not experience women as being very human. You see us has living some lofty high rise New York City living where everything is elongated cigerettes and floor length gowns where we don't have a care in the world. Bullcrap. Until you recognize that women are people, you won't be able to have any kind of sunstainable relationship with us. So stop with your silly nonsense that women don't put the same effort into their relationships that men do. And stop with the nonsense that only women buy into media pretense. And stop justifying male behavior ("visual creatures") because you don't like the idea of having to live up to any kind of expectation of honor or respect by practicing a little self control. Grow the bleep up.
PhillyDude Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 Women feel that men can't live without their magical hole so they feel that they don't have to put as much effort in a relationship. If a woman really craved something you was born with and needed all the time would you put in a lot of effort?-lol
D-Lish Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 Women feel that men can't live without their magical hole so they feel that they don't have to put as much effort in a relationship. If a woman really craved something you was born with and needed all the time would you put in a lot of effort?-lol Is that how you feel? Maybe we should go back to an age where it was acceptable to beat the **** out of your wife and just keep it "private".
PhillyDude Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 Is that how you feel? Maybe we should go back to an age where it was acceptable to beat the **** out of your wife and just keep it "private". No but some women do feel that because men crave sex so much they don't have to put in much effort. That's why I hate to see men act like they can't live without sex
mr.dream merchant Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 (edited) Anyone ever wonder why D-Lish is always showcasing her tits? Lol. Anyways! Back to the topic at hand. OP! I can't agree with you here bro. Relationships fail for all sorts of reasons. Men and women are normally equally at fault for it. Truth is alot of people settle, when they know in their mind they shouldn't. But what can you do? Sometimes that girl is so hot you'll convince yourself that her bitchy attitude is manageable. Or that her having tons of male friends is just because she's a likeable girl. Then you have the girl who ignores the fact that her man is a player because he smooth talks his way into the deepest depths of her mind, gently stroking her ego and emotions with his carefully chosen words. People make mistakes. But to fault one whole gender for the reason why so many different kinds of relationships fail is just crazy talk bro, and you know it. Edited September 12, 2011 by mr.dream merchant
omkara Posted September 12, 2011 Posted September 12, 2011 Y'know wanna know the REAL reason why relationships fail? Average Male Stereotype: "Women are the reason relationships fail!" Average Female Stereotype: "NO U!" That's why.
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