Babyribs Posted May 9, 2004 Posted May 9, 2004 Hi everyone, this is my first time here and i have a big problem that maybe one of you can help me solve. about 3 weeks ago my ex and i broke up and it was an ugly brake up, she actually put me in jail because i wanted my stuff back, i was in jail for 4 days on charges of tresspasing all because she didnt want to give me my stuff back and she wanted to show off infront this 20 year old guy who i believe she's been seeing "even behind my back" but i cant say for sure, well anyways i have been angry and sad and pissed and all kinds of stuff but lately mostly hurting and missing her a lot. i file a lawsuit to get my stuff back from her, now she has an order of protection against me for absolutely no reason because even in court she admited that i wasnt i violent person, now today is mothers day and i miss her, and her kids, i got a card and a little gift for her, i dont know why because i cant even give it to her, i came home and i notice that her "20 year old friends car is infront of her house" we live only 1/2 block from each other and that made me hurt like crazy. all i keep doing is wonder does she still love me after 3 years? does she miss me?? does she think about me??? and most of all will she ever contact me, it has been 3 weeks since we last talked because of the order of protection and i cant contact her at all, does anyone think she will, i am missing her more now than ever and even thought she did that to me i still love her, i guess thats what you call unconditional love.... does anyone think she will contact me at all??? please help me answer my questions. Thank you guys
calithin83 Posted May 9, 2004 Posted May 9, 2004 im sorry to say this but she sounds like a really MEAN girl, how could she put u in jail??? and if shes seeing another guy most likely she doesnt carea bout u, as much as that hurts but when u love someone u dont send them to jail, and u dont be with another man...im sorry but i dont think u should contact her or try to see her, it sounds like ure a really loving guy and well i just wish u the best, but this woman doesnt sound like a good woman and u dont need someone like this in ure life...there are so many awesome woman who want an attentive guy who loves em very much but damn she dont deserve it!! I know its hard though..i also have the same questions as u..coz i dated my bf for 3 years 1/2 and we just broke up..but im just thinking about everything he did wrong, and realizing that this is not the man who i need to be with, becuz i deserve the very best!! hang in there!!!
meanttolive4ever Posted May 9, 2004 Posted May 9, 2004 yea if she really cared about you, i think she wouldnt have sent u to jail..thats just plain out mean.
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