If Tells youHave a Good Weekend, means doesn't want to be bothered in weekend?

[quietGuy13]

My friend who i've had few dates with.. on Friday i sent her a text and she said Have a good weeknd. I was hoping to meet her in the weekend since we haven't met since last monday but i guess she doesn't want to.

 

Wel she's a busy student i guess there's no way out of it.

 

but anyway, that's what it means right?

 

but also could it mean she's not really interested..... i mean, maybe. Cause i feel like i like her but i dont feel like she likes me that much

[USCGAviator]

Only one way to find out. I would tell her to give you a call if she wants to get together sometime during the weekend.

[motive2002]

What kind of text did you send her? Did you ask if she has plans for the weekend?

 

I really hate text messaging for this very reason. Sometimes people text just to establish contact. "Have a good weekend" could mean a number of things. It could be a inquiry, as to what you might be up to this weekend. It could be a brush off, as in "I'm busy all weekend, I hope you have a good one".. or it could just be polite and not have any meaning behind it.

 

Never in my life have I over-analyzed what people said before than when I started using text messages.

 

I think the ball is still on your court. CALL her. Try to make plans to see her and then gauge her reaction based on what she SAYS to you.

You don't have to go on and on about anything else, like what she meant by her text.. blah blah etc. Just call her. Ask her out. If she says yes, make a date for it and leave it at that. Save all the other convo for in-person.

 

Does that help?

[Imageiko]

If I say have a good weekend it means I don't plan on seeing them during the weekend.

[dasein]

Nononno! It could possibly mean she is busy, but not usually. She is most likely fishing to see if you will want to see her! or to find out if you have plans with other competing females. Sometimes it means she is horny and wants sex right then, but you have to do more to find out exactly what she means. Now, it doesn't mean that she will automatically accept your invitation if you ask her, she may power play and claim plans of her own once asked, or may have other plans all along, but is fishing to see if you will ask. You win by understanding the game.

 

When they say that, drop everything and press to get together right then, just for a few minutes, before the weekend, and be very physically and sexually assertive if you can get them alone for a few minutes. Ask her "so what are your plans for the weekend?" after having sex with her, or if the relationship isn't sexual yet, after making your most forward pass. Keeps you in control and not worrying about whether she wants to see you or is busy. Start your weekends with a clear head, KNOWING where you stand with a particular woman you are seeing. Cut out the wondering time at every opportunity and turn it immediately to action time. Good luck.

[coolheadal]

But doing what I say? Weekend is usually free time, or should could be studying for her exams. Just give her a call and see if she picks up the phone? If she doesn't pick it up means she's doing something?

 

What the something is the question?

[quietGuy13]

Ok update.

 

Well we haven't met since 9/5, and I got the courage to text her today and just ask "hey let's meet again soon" and

she answered!! saying "let's meet in the weekend". So that's like 2 weeks of not seeing eachother.

 

 

I'm not addicted to her or nothing so it's fine. But I don't know but I think if girls's are interested they would like to see you alittle more.or no?? i mean, i dont know. This is my first experience having a female friend.

 

But she's a busy student and probably has bunch of classmate friends.

[Cracker Jack]

Just stop overthinking and meet up with her on the weekend. There's no issue here.

[grkBoy]

Ok update.

 

Well we haven't met since 9/5, and I got the courage to text her today and just ask "hey let's meet again soon" and

she answered!! saying "let's meet in the weekend". So that's like 2 weeks of not seeing eachother.

 

 

I'm not addicted to her or nothing so it's fine. But I don't know but I think if girls's are interested they would like to see you alittle more.or no?? i mean, i dont know. This is my first experience having a female friend.

 

But she's a busy student and probably has bunch of classmate friends.

 

You're overthinking it. Look at the bolded part...what she told you.

 

You know what that says?

 

It says "ASK ME OUT"

 

Maybe she's "just a friend", but think of something fun to do and give her a call. Take a chance. You have to take chances to get to the higher levels. Believe me, I used to be royally insecure and "play it safe". Never got me anywhere. I'd rather ask a girl out and get rejected than play and hope for a "clearer sign".

 

Frankly, I think she gave you a clear enough sign that she wants to see you socially. Just not sure if it's "as friends" or "could be more".