blakjak Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 Right. Not gonna go into massive details. However, in contact with former gf. We broke up because of distance. Although at first I was fine with the breakup, I found out I will be back at some point and wish to rekindle the romance. She starts a conversation via email. Lots of casual banter. Main points though ---> She asks: 1)How i'm doing and what I am doing in life. 2)If I am seeing anyone. (i playfully avoided answering the question) 3)When I am back in town. Against better judgement I told her casually tell her " Yeah, I miss all my Americans. I miss you alot too ". She responds "So you miss me eh? Awww that's cute . Women of the internet, please translate this for me. Whilst I am getting positive hints... Getting outside female perspective and what this dialogue might possibly imply would be a great help.... THANKS x
Ellie1980 Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 She is interested. I think you are in a great position. Ask her if she would like to have coffee and catch up. Something very casual. After that you will have a better idea. Don't make assumptions about what you can have with her. It's like you have a chance to start a new relationship with her. I would treat it as a new relationship and NOT pick up any drama and carry it forward with you. Good luck
Author blakjak Posted September 11, 2011 Author Posted September 11, 2011 ha ha ha cheerz x when i am back in the United States of America for good i will totally do tht xx it won't be a while... i just wanted to know where i stand with her.i want there to be at least interest b4 i dive into noman's land.
Eddie Edirol Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 Right. Not gonna go into massive details. However, in contact with former gf. We broke up because of distance. Although at first I was fine with the breakup, I found out I will be back at some point and wish to rekindle the romance. She starts a conversation via email. Lots of casual banter. Main points though ---> She asks: 1)How i'm doing and what I am doing in life. 2)If I am seeing anyone. (i playfully avoided answering the question) 3)When I am back in town. Against better judgement I told her casually tell her " Yeah, I miss all my Americans. I miss you alot too ". She responds "So you miss me eh? Awww that's cute . Women of the internet, please translate this for me. Whilst I am getting positive hints... Getting outside female perspective and what this dialogue might possibly imply would be a great help.... THANKS x Shes not interested, she just wanted to know youre still hanging on for her, and you basically told her yes. She just wanted to make sure you didnt move on without her. So next time she asks you anything, dont give her any real answers. 1)How i'm doing and what I am doing in life. Answer: "Im keeping busy and workin hard" 2)If I am seeing anyone. "I bet you'd like to know" 3)When I am back in town. "eventually" If she is really interested, she has to make a lil better effort than this.
Author blakjak Posted September 12, 2011 Author Posted September 12, 2011 Fair enough mate. I can do that.
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