B FAV Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 hey my name is B, i am a 19 years old male and i am still a virgin. I have done oral and have recieved oral, but I find it truely embaressing that i have never penetrated a girl with my penis yet. i lost a few of my chances because i had over thought of the outcome after it happened due to situations i was in (such as what if her boyfriend found out, what if i get fired being caught at work etc.) or it was just at the wrong time, never because of my physical fitness or emotional issues. but i regret them now because im still a damn virgin, and i masturbate regularly and i dont want to have to do that. im in college studying, and i dont have a problem approaching women or meeting new people because im likable by others and i feel confident talking to girls, it was never an issue with me. i had an opportunity a month ago with this girl. there have been many times were i would get excited when we would kiss and touch eachother but never the right time to proceed due to our surroundings and such. i had my opportunity when we were together in my room and i started performinng oral sex on her, she enjoyed it, but i wasnt getting hard. i just couldnt understand why i havnt erected at that moment, when the other times i had been. could someone please explain how this could have happened to me? im very scared and i dont what else to do but to be frustrated
MrsNoMo Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 Your problem is, you worry too much. Just go with it. It'll happen when it happens. And who cares if you are still a virgin at 19. Some girls actually like that.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 You're worth isn't wrapped up in if a woman will have sex with or not. Or how many women you've had sex with. You need to seperate your confidence from the validation you get from being intimate with a woman. It's not real confidence anyway if it's deteremined on other people. This is how people in rap videos determine their worth but it isn't how a man should. You're so much more then that. ..However, if you are hitting on girls that have boyfriends, that's just messed up.
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