Dust Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 I say dating sites suck. Internet sucks in general for a man to get girls. Literally adding random girls who you see on your friends page, pics on face book or just completely friending random girls is almost guaranteed to work better then a “dating” website. The best way of course for a man to meet women is be bold and hit on women in confident ways not just at night life type scenarios but also alcohol free environments.
Ginger Beer Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 I think the best way via the internet is adding friends of girls you already know on Facebook. Also agree about the alcohol-free environment.
Author Dust Posted September 11, 2011 Author Posted September 11, 2011 I think the best way via the internet is adding friends of girls you already know on Facebook. Also agree about the alcohol-free environment. Then we are in complete agreement. If you add a girl from a friends list heck even if it’s a complete random add on fb you have much more of a chance of at least getting a response or some flirting going as opposed to the complete ignoring that goes on in the internet dating world. Not to mention more girls on fb then on any one particular dating site. Of course real world should be your number one focus. That doesn’t mean bars or nightclubs as I said before lol. Nightclubs should more be for the fun of going to a nightclub which of course could include hooking up and making out with some random hot bodied half naked chick on the dance floor just don’t count on that. Still night clubs are better then internet dating. That’s how low I think of traditional dating site internet dating. I actually consider craigslist better then dating site internet dating and that’s mostly hookers.
quietGuy13 Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 Are you kidding? Facebook is the worse way. I'm proof. I tried it, has never worked. Especially if you don't have a picture on Facebook.
Cracker Jack Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 (edited) Word. I could never pull women off of Facebook, tho. A few of my friends did, but the majority of them gave up on it. Most of them at least chatted it up with women on FB moreso than POF/OKCupid and whatever else they used. I know whenever I go out, there's always at least an opportunity presented for me to make a move, yet I just can't. At least those situations have fully convinced me that if I'm to ever get a woman, my chances IRL are much better than they are online in anything. And none of these are alcohol environments. I might have to give those environments a try, tho, since I've never been to a club/bar at all. Edited September 11, 2011 by Cracker Jack
Author Dust Posted September 11, 2011 Author Posted September 11, 2011 Are you kidding? Facebook is the worse way. I'm proof. I tried it, has never worked. Especially if you don't have a picture on Facebook. That doesn’t prove sht. Not to mention I never said it was a good way. I just said it was better then some “dating” web site. College is a good way to meet girls but there are many guys who would be proof that is wrong. It’s still true that college is a great way to meet girls though in the same way facebook is about as good an internet tool you will have for girls. Far better then dating sites but far inferior to real world meetings.
Author Dust Posted September 11, 2011 Author Posted September 11, 2011 Word. I could never pull women off of Facebook, tho. A few of my friends did, but the majority of them gave up on it. Most of them at least chatted it up with women on FB moreso than POF/OKCupid and whatever else they used. I know whenever I go out, there's always at least an opportunity presented for me to make a move, yet I just can't. At least those situations have fully convinced me that if I'm to ever get a woman, my chances IRL are much better than they are online in anything. And none of these are alcohol environments. I might have to give those environments a try, tho, since I've never been to a club/bar at all. If you go to a club or bar don’t take it to serious. Seriously if you see a hot girl tell her she’s sexy or some crazy crap you think is funny at the time. Do not get drunk to the point any one would have to look after you. But yes get good and buzzed to the point you think everything you do is cool whether it be farting or slapping some random girls ass on the dance floor lol. Just realize a club is a horrible place to meet women. First off a certain type of girl goes to the clubs. Second of course there are plenty of regular girls at the clubs too but they are on ultra guard, that means they’ll shoe you away and act annoyed/scared when if you had encountered them at the beach or something they would have flirted with you and agreed to a date. Finally a girl who agrees to date you at a club is a lot more likely to back out on you then some one who agreed to date you while in line at the bank or what ever. Still go out have fun at the club trying to press up against some hot young thing all dolled up. Get a drink and try to relax and laugh with friends or what ever. Just bird watching at a club can be fun.
Ginger Beer Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 Are you kidding? Facebook is the worse way. I'm proof. I tried it, has never worked. Especially if you don't have a picture on Facebook. It's not. It's better than dating sites hands down. I've got speaking to loads of girls who we had mutual friends with.
Ginger Beer Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 If you go to a club or bar don’t take it to serious. Seriously if you see a hot girl tell her she’s sexy or some crazy crap you think is funny at the time. Do not get drunk to the point any one would have to look after you. But yes get good and buzzed to the point you think everything you do is cool whether it be farting or slapping some random girls ass on the dance floor lol. Just realize a club is a horrible place to meet women. First off a certain type of girl goes to the clubs. Second of course there are plenty of regular girls at the clubs too but they are on ultra guard, that means they’ll shoe you away and act annoyed/scared when if you had encountered them at the beach or something they would have flirted with you and agreed to a date. Finally a girl who agrees to date you at a club is a lot more likely to back out on you then some one who agreed to date you while in line at the bank or what ever. Still go out have fun at the club trying to press up against some hot young thing all dolled up. Get a drink and try to relax and laugh with friends or what ever. Just bird watching at a club can be fun. The wrong type.
Cracker Jack Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 If you go to a club or bar don’t take it to serious. Seriously if you see a hot girl tell her she’s sexy or some crazy crap you think is funny at the time. Do not get drunk to the point any one would have to look after you. But yes get good and buzzed to the point you think everything you do is cool whether it be farting or slapping some random girls ass on the dance floor lol. Just realize a club is a horrible place to meet women. First off a certain type of girl goes to the clubs. Second of course there are plenty of regular girls at the clubs too but they are on ultra guard, that means they’ll shoe you away and act annoyed/scared when if you had encountered them at the beach or something they would have flirted with you and agreed to a date. Finally a girl who agrees to date you at a club is a lot more likely to back out on you then some one who agreed to date you while in line at the bank or what ever. Still go out have fun at the club trying to press up against some hot young thing all dolled up. Get a drink and try to relax and laugh with friends or what ever. Just bird watching at a club can be fun. Good looking, dude. But when you say "don't take it serious", are you referring to the approach in general? If so, shouldn't that mindset be adapted for wherever I decide to talk to women? Just wondering... To be honest, I've never had a drink in my life. I think I would probably need at least one to calm myself, because I tend to get a bit overwhelmed when I'm around a lot of people. Through a lot of active and attractive women into the equation, and I'm in for a world of hurt.
Ginger Beer Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 This is madness. Using facebook is difficult to pull out. You just have to check online dating site reviews to find out the top 5 online dating sites where you can meet and choose girls. Just think about it. Hello Mr. Spam Bot.
627 Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 internet sucks. I never tried dating sites but, if it is anything like facebook... look basically when you befriend someone on facebook, and they have like 500+ friends(and they easily would have that if they accept requests easily) then you as a facebook friend have no value, you are one of 500 add to that, attractive people that can be out dating, having sex, being invited on free meals etc will not be spending time hooking up on facebook to begin with last point, internet is impersonal, when you talk to people over the internet and you tell them all your jokes and stuff, it takes away material you could have used in personal interaction that could have lead you somewhere. nothign worse than finding yourself with an internet contact in a face to face conversation with little to say
coolheadal Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 What you need is three circles in the real world. All those girls who are: 1. Not Married 2. No Lover 3. No Full-time Boy Friend 4. No Fiance 5. No Kids 6. No Underage 7. Totally Available 8. Ready to meet someone new 9. Looking/Seeking Right Guy These types would go into Circle A Online Girls would go into Circle B 1. Online Instant Chat Girls 2. Online Girl Sites 3. Online etc.. Bar and Club Girls would go into Circle C 1. Bar-Fly Girls 2. One-night Stand Girls 3. Easy Girls 4. Sex Only Girls 5. Not looking for Love just Sex 6. Not looking for any type of relationship 7. Cheaters 8. Still Married 9. Separated 0. Girls Night Out Flirts Etc... This is what's out there right now... If you can have a perfect world where you could choose the right one then you won't have to go through the BS right now every man and women go through.
Author Dust Posted September 11, 2011 Author Posted September 11, 2011 Good looking, dude. But when you say "don't take it serious", are you referring to the approach in general? If so, shouldn't that mindset be adapted for wherever I decide to talk to women? Just wondering... To be honest, I've never had a drink in my life. I think I would probably need at least one to calm myself, because I tend to get a bit overwhelmed when I'm around a lot of people. Through a lot of active and attractive women into the equation, and I'm in for a world of hurt. I say have a drink live a little. Watch out though you could be an angry drinker. Also of course you shouldn’t be to serious no matter what the scenario after all girls just want to have fun. You can’t make them have fun but at least if you have fun there’s more of a chance they will too. The thing is in a bar feel free to be extra crazy. If you go to the bar scene you’ll see what I mean. Asking a girl to do a blow job shot isn’t exactly something you would do in line at the supermarket or in the middle of the day at school. That’s just an example.
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