BCT Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 I have been dating my bf for about a month (known him for about a year). He told me he loves me a week into our relationship. I was weary of this because of the "throwing" love around thing. He assured me it wasn't lust, but he does love me. He now (after a month) has asked me to get a place with him. What has me confused is...last night when I asked him what his "intentions" were with us, or what he thought about us. He said "I don't know" That was it. So I left. If he cannot answer that simple question, why would he want to get a place together?! Our financial situations are about the same, so its not money. He said I put him on the spot and he didnt know what to say. I do love him, but I am not to sure where he is going with this. Any suggestions? Thanks!!!
Yookie Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 He wants to move in together but doesn't know what his intentions are for the future? Do not move with this person. Give the relationship sometime to develop before making drastic commitments like moving in. Time will tell if his love is sincere or if he has a hidden agenda.
coolheadal Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 You two are moving to fast! Give this time and don't ask him questions yet as he's not ready for that. Don't move in with him either. Love is a word most use in all ways but it has to come from the heart and mind set just can be use to throw at you. It has meaning too fulfill your life together. He's too quick, he just need to watch his words to what you want to her from him.
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