misssmartypants Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 I don't think anyone will ever love me. I am apparently utterly unlovable and undesirable and there is nothing I can do to change it and the loneliness I feel is so deep that all I can manage to do is lay on my bed with my eyes closed and try not to cry. How do I make it stop hurting?
Author misssmartypants Posted September 10, 2011 Author Posted September 10, 2011 Apparently not even anyone here gives a rat's ass. Nothing new in my life I guess, no one cares.
iris219 Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 I'm sorry you feel the way you do. I feel the same way. This weekend has been particularly hard for me, not because anything specific has happened, but because NOTHING specific has happened. Nothing seems to change in my life when it comes to meeting someone. I don't know what else to do. I don't have much advice for you. When I begin to feel hopeless I remind myself that the really bad feelings will subside and I'll start to feel better. For me, the effects of the loneliness wax and wane. Some weeks I deal with it better than others, so I remember that one of the good weeks has to be coming. I'm trying really hard to accept that I might be alone forever, but it's difficult. I try to focus on the good things in my life.
coolheadal Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 You sound depress and a lot of this is going around. Just have to change your life around that what your doing right now. That special person will be around sooner than you think, just have to give it time. As we all go through times like this which is normal way of life. Cheer-up and try to be happy. Go outside and head down to the park or lake or creek or ocean and take a walk along the banks of it. Best yet sit in a yoga position and close your eyes and mind to your current events and feel positive about one self being.
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