lyeex Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 It's been 4 months since they broke up. I've known him before he started dating her, met him June 2010. We were just casual, as I didnt want anything serious. He came back to me after they broke up, which is when I told him I have feelings for him, and a vicious cycle started. He liked spending time with me, but he was handling his breakup by drinking and sleeping around. He strung me along, telling me he wanted to be with me, but I knew he wasn't able to. Everytime I'd leave him, he'd come back, and it would start all over again. I just ended it again 2 days ago. It wasn't a good ending. I had to get police involved to get my stuff back from him. He was shocked that I would do that, but I had no other choice as he was refusing to give it back. I really thought this time was different, and we were headed towards a relationship. He was introducing me to his friends and telling them about me, taking me out in public and holding my hand, we spent most of our time just talking about our lives. But the more I showed that I cared for him, the more distant he became. He was still bringing up his ex in conversation, still hiding things on facebook, still talking to other girls. He's just not over her and his way to deal with it is to drink and see a bunch of different girls. I'm hurt, I'm angry. He needs time to deal with this, and I dont want to be strung along in the meantime, it's nothing but pain for me. I care about him deeply, but he's not in a state to return those feelings to me. What if he comes back again? How would I trust him? He probably wont though, after I got the police involved, but then again, everytime it's ended badly he always came back.
Eddie Edirol Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 He goes back to you when it doesnt work out with any other women. he is desperately trying to find someone that will take his mind off his ex, and it hasnt happened yet. You included. There is nothing you can do to win his heart, so dont waste any more of your time with him. You dont want someone on a rebound.
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