Ayla Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 I need a little outside perspective... I like this guy (X) so much (posted previously about him) and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. This week we have spent a lot of time together (seeing each other 4 days out of 6) a few times was due to his flatmate basically throwing us together. Eg the other day I went to have coffee with his flatmate-and he told me he was just home with his 15yr old son, and X wasn't there. I got there, and the son was not there, but X was. When I questioned Xs flatmate, he just smiled. Today I ran into them at the local shops, I was taking a break from house hunting. His flatmate then called me and said that X and I should go and look together. I turned up there to a conversation where his flatmate was saying "she is your gf". Then his flatmate said "you two could buy something together." when X wasn't there I asked him about the gf comment, and he said "well you two are basically bf and gf." and when X and i were walking to the car, his flatmate said "enjoy househunting. Mr and Mrs X was it?" X doesn't say anything when his flatmate says these things. He either laughs or just smiles. Nothing else. I should clarify that his flatmate is a very good friend of X. This is not the first time his flatmate has made comments, but this week has been the first time he has thrown us together (twice). Both times have been very enjoyable. Of course when we were looking at houses today, people did assume we were together. If you were the friend\flatmate-why would you be doing throwing us together and making all these comments all the time?
robdrm32 Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 Because his flatmate is trying to hook the two of you up. It's pretty obvious, and if anything you should be thankful. It sounds like he knows the 2 of you pretty well and see's that you would be good together. Roll with it.
Author Ayla Posted September 10, 2011 Author Posted September 10, 2011 Oh, I am very thankful. X and I have known each other for nearly a year (and dated for a few months, but I ended it because he was not ready for a relationship), I told him when he was ready maybe we could try again. About 4 months ago we started hanging out again as friends (after not speaking for 3 months). His flatmate has known me for around the same time. I was worrying that I was reading it the wrong way. I was also thinking that X might be talking to his flatmate about me and how he feels??? Is that a distinct possibility?
robdrm32 Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 If they are good friends like you said, then it is a sure thing he is talking to his roomate about you. You guys are on the road to being a couple again, so like i said just roll with it and enjoy.
Author Ayla Posted September 10, 2011 Author Posted September 10, 2011 Thanks Rob! They definitely are good friends, and spend a lot of time together. I hope your right! I will just sit back and go with the flow.
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