Jonnyy Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 I have heard so many people say that NC and taking yourself completely out of your ex's life is the way to go. But i have also seen many that think you should still talk to your ex,(not full contact, but respond to their texts, even if it takes awhile) Now LS, which side are you on?
mike588 Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 If your the one who got dumped why do you want to remain in contact with your ex? You were DUMPED, they no longer want you in their life! I don't know why so many people want to stay friends with their ex shortly after a breakup, it only prolongs the agony, delays the healing process. Maybe it's some sort of just hanging on to that person. It is possible to be friends with an ex. a long way down the road, maybe a year or years when you both have healed, moved on and can reflect on the relationship.
shayla Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 I never want to see, hear from, or contact my ex again...after the things he did? Are you kidding? There is nothing, absolutely nothing that I want from him in any way shape or form, especially his friendship.
ScienceGal Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 I do not want to be friends with my ex. I would consider responding if he contacted me, it depends on the situation. I would still have to love and miss him. Even with that though, if it was anything less than him realizing how horrible he was to me, then I wouldn't want to speak to him. I don't want to rehash what happened just for the sake of it. Also, if I was seeing someone new, I would not even consider responding.
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