Mr. Savage Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 Today will be our 4th date and I have been making attempts to like this girl but am really just not feeling anything. I can't tell what she feels. She is hard to get a read on. After our 3rd date I decided to not make any contact with her and see what she would do. She contacted me and setup a full 4th date. I know I have to be honest and just come out and say it to her face in a kind manner but this will not be easy. She is a nice person. Is there anything I should do or don't do in this situation to make it go smoothly? I've never done this before so I really don't know. Thanks guys!
Buttercup84 Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 Today will be our 4th date and I have been making attempts to like this girl but am really just not feeling anything. I can't tell what she feels. She is hard to get a read on. After our 3rd date I decided to not make any contact with her and see what she would do. She contacted me and setup a full 4th date. I know I have to be honest and just come out and say it to her face in a kind manner but this will not be easy. She is a nice person. Is there anything I should do or don't do in this situation to make it go smoothly? I've never done this before so I really don't know. Thanks guys! Why are you not into her ? Just be honest.Tell her that you feel more of a friendship vibe.It will hurt her but at least you are not leading her on.BUT I almost dumped my ex on one of our first dates because I was not feeling it.But we had a talk and I fell in love.But that was just me.
mike588 Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 It's only the 4th date and neither of you have a strong emotional connection yet and assume you haven't said/told her you love her then it should be somewhat easy. Don't drag out the realtionship then tell her, it will only hurt her more. Tell her face to face, be calm and sincere
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