OnyxSnowfall Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 (edited) Pros and cons to everything... It would be wonderful to synthesize/coalesce with an opposite gender clone of myself. We'd share the same ideals, beliefs and values and our sex life would be monumentally climatic and OUT OF THIS WORLD, being that we'd both be creative givers and pleasers who get off on that... and even if we got tired, we'd still want to engulf one another --- yes, it would be a mind, body and soul shattering relationship. We'd explore things together, we'd always be learning and eager to teach others what we learn, we'd have constant validation and support whether we were right or wrong, and we'd create art together, drink coffee or wine and share in other carnal indulgences, cook grand meals for one another after and before sex, take off in nature and separate and enjoy our solitude there only to come back together and get frisky in the dirt or in a waterfall, oh so many things, so many things. We'd be constantly challenging one another and yes oh yes oh yes, just so many many more things. And perhaps even more significantly, our loneliness in this world would finally be abated! I highly doubt I'd get bored. My interests and hobbies are diverse enough, and I also like some alone time --- I doubt we'd read the same exact books etc at the same exact time, my moods are shifty etc. ... "if" only he could only be taller than me, damn... (More seriously though... I was drawn to my current boyfriend out of what I observed were similarities between us. But we are also vastly different... in some unfortunate ways, but in some good ones --- I really appreciate how differently he sees things. His imagination and mind fascinates me, partly because I can't fathom it). Edited September 10, 2011 by OnyxSnowfall
OnyxSnowfall Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 No, not really. It would be boring with person you agree all the time with, on every single matter in the world. that's assuming you never question yourself and always think you are right. If you have no inner turmoil / conflict, I suppose it would be boring... but for those of us that are a little crazier, it would be interesting :love::love:
Author somedude81 Posted September 10, 2011 Author Posted September 10, 2011 Pros and cons to everything... It would be wonderful to synthesize/coalesce with an opposite gender clone of myself. We'd share the same ideals, beliefs and values and our sex life would be monumentally climatic and OUT OF THIS WORLD, being that we'd both be creative givers and pleasers who get off on that... and even if we got tired, we'd still want to engulf one another --- yes, it would be a mind, body and soul shattering relationship. We'd explore things together, we'd always be learning and eager to teach others what we learn, we'd have constant validation and support whether we were right or wrong, and we'd create art together, drink coffee or wine and share in other carnal indulgences, cook grand meals for one another after and before sex, take off in nature and separate and enjoy our solitude there only to come back together and get frisky in the dirt or in a waterfall, oh so many things, so many things. We'd be constantly challenging one another and yes oh yes oh yes, just so many many more things. And perhaps even more significantly, our loneliness in this world would finally be abated! I highly doubt I'd get bored. My interests and hobbies are diverse enough, and I also like some alone time --- I doubt we'd read the same exact books etc at the same exact time, my moods are shifty etc. ... "if" only he could only be taller than me, damn... (More seriously though... I was drawn to my current boyfriend out of what I observed were similarities between us. But we are also vastly different... in some unfortunate ways, but in some good ones --- I really appreciate how differently he sees things. His imagination and mind fascinates me, partly because I can't fathom it). Very well thought out post. Thank you. I seriously can't think of any reason why not to. Of course there are some benefits to seeing things differently.
SmileFace Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 I don't think the male me will even want a relationship if he is just like me. So the answer is no
AHardDaysNight Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 To answer seriously: No, I probably wouldn't. It would be extremely boring.
Author somedude81 Posted September 10, 2011 Author Posted September 10, 2011 To answer seriously: No, I probably wouldn't. It would be extremely boring. Really? Are you that boring of a person that you don't do anything interesting? Heck, one of the first things I'd do is start traveling. There are many interesting things I'd so an see with a fem-clone.
AHardDaysNight Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 Really? Are you that boring of a person that you don't do anything interesting? Heck, one of the first things I'd do is start traveling. There are many interesting things I'd so an see with a fem-clone. Well, we could probably start a band together. I'd play guitar and keyboards, and she could play bass and sing.
sweetjasmine Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 No way, for the reasons people have mentioned already. It would get extremely boring. My weaknesses would be multiplied, and there would be nothing to balance it out. My opinions and points of view would never be challenged by a different perspective. How dull and uninteresting. Plus, hello, inbreeding! And there could be no children - think of the deformities. Yuck.
Cee Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 I couldn't date my copy. It is like incest or a bizarre form of masturbation. There would be pain if I met my copy. He would be bipolar 1 like I am. This is a disorder that has a relatively high mortality and disability rate. I would simply be his friend and confidante. And maybe I'd tell him the secrets I could never tell anyone because they would never understand. I wonder if someone who has my DNA would actually understand my life experience? This is an interesting retread of the nature vs. nurture debate. My sister and I are sometimes like the same person. But I think it has more to do with us being close in age and being together so much.
AHardDaysNight Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 I agree. I am bipolar, have social anxiety, severe body dismorphic disorder, and social awkwardness. I am also really shy, and have low self esteem. I'd probably get to the point where I want a divorce or a messy breakup. I couldn't date myself...even have trouble living with myself!
Dust Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 Really? Are you that boring of a person that you don't do anything interesting? Heck, one of the first things I'd do is start traveling. There are many interesting things I'd so an see with a fem-clone. This entire fem clone of yourself is revealing logical issues with yourself. Technically what you really want isn’t a fem clone but some one who will never leave you. A fem clone wouldn’t want to date you but in your scenario she had to date you and want to be with you. In that scenario you would end up abusing her I’m not saying beating her but you would take her for granted because in fact she’d never leave you is what you said. You’ve never had a relationship with a girl so you are under the false assumption that having some one who agrees with you no matter what is what people go for. The fact is you yourself try to take on the false persona of being very agreeable when ever you date a girl to the point you never make moves. This is your reason for failing. Realize that if you ever meet a person whose sole purpose is to do what ever you want you would quickly grow tired of it. One of the many things you like about women is that they don’t do what ever you want so it feels special and great when things work out.
Ginger Beer Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 So basically, would I have sex with my sister? No.
Dust Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 So basically, would I have sex with my sister? No. I would actually consider having sex with your sister less depraved then this scenario. It's more like having sex with your daughter because its something you created from yourself.
Ginger Beer Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 I would actually consider having sex with your sister less depraved then this scenario. It's more like having sex with your daughter because its something you created from yourself. Good point. Either way, the answer is definitely no.
You'reasian Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 Would the clone try to replace me? There can only be one...
Dust Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 Would the clone try to replace me? There can only be one... Realisticly yes your clone would want to kill and assume your life. In his scenario no the clone for some reason just loves being a girl and loves dating itself.
AHardDaysNight Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 Neither can live while the other survives.
You'reasian Posted September 11, 2011 Posted September 11, 2011 Realisticly yes your clone would want to kill and assume your life. In his scenario no the clone for some reason just loves being a girl and loves dating itself. Even if I met a female version of myself, I would want to get to know her and see what she's like in her entireity before I'd make any decisions. There would be pro's and con's - I'd have to experience this to see...
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