silentnoone Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 Ok so I'm really digging this girl and we have hit it off brilliantly. We met on an online dating site and its been remarkable to say the least. We have been on 6 dates I have been to her place and she has been to mine. We have had intense make out sessions and the last one at my place resulted in her performing oral sex on me. To me if feels as if we have taken a step further in our relationship together, but the only problem is she hasn't contacted me since our last date. Our last date has been three days ago so I don't know whether she is playing hard to get, if she is afraid of getting to attached, or if she just isn't interested. I know she was interested and I did not force her to do anything she didn't want to. I feel as though she may be intimidated by me and I don't want to keep texting her like I'm desperate or something. I just want an answer as to why she might be doing this.
Ayla Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 Have contacted her? It isn't clear in your post...
coolheadal Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 There is a thing call the telephone you can call her up you know? Best to take a drive over to her pad and see what's up. Sounds like something going on? Are you sure she's not seeing other guys like yourself from the online seeking.
bac Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 Ok so I'm really digging this girl and we have hit it off brilliantly. We met on an online dating site and its been remarkable to say the least. We have been on 6 dates I have been to her place and she has been to mine. We have had intense make out sessions and the last one at my place resulted in her performing oral sex on me. To me if feels as if we have taken a step further in our relationship together, but the only problem is she hasn't contacted me since our last date. Our last date has been three days ago so I don't know whether she is playing hard to get, if she is afraid of getting to attached, or if she just isn't interested. I know she was interested and I did not force her to do anything she didn't want to. I feel as though she may be intimidated by me and I don't want to keep texting her like I'm desperate or something. I just want an answer as to why she might be doing this. Did I get it right that you did not contact her for 3 days after the oral sex? If it is true, you have hurt her feelings a lot. If a guy treated me like that, I would definitely drop him.
Author silentnoone Posted September 10, 2011 Author Posted September 10, 2011 Did I get it right that you did not contact her for 3 days after the oral sex? If it is true, you have hurt her feelings a lot. If a guy treated me like that, I would definitely drop him. I texted her and she responded then I sent her another text and nothing... We have always talked everyday... But nothing!
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