tela1425 Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 My gf and i broke up about 6 months ago. She felt i wasnt spending enough time with her, or making her feel important enough in my life. Previous to that, we had a great relationship, but we each moved, and created physical distance and made things more difficult. And i didnt put in the effort i once had, well at least with the time i spent with her. We had dated for a year and a half and 90% of it was good. But, i lost sight of what was important to her, and felt my nice thoughtful acts were enough, instead of what she really wanted, my time. Point is, we have been lc for a while, her texting me periodically and we hung out once about a month or 2 after the break up. We havent talked much in the past couple months. I have been thinking about her recently and want to reach out and see whats up. Maybe ask her to get a drink. Any insight would be greatly appreciated...
LuluinAZ Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 Yes, please do. She may be wanting you to, but don't be hurt if she doesn't. Mine did, I took it as an opening, went in with enthusiasm, then he said he's love to otherwise, but he's in a relationship now. Ouch. If you open the door, be sure you want it open.
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