so_mo34 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 I lost my virginity to this guy 5 years ago when I was 18. He always was weird and dissapeared on and off but would text me out of the blue. We hung out a few times and fooled around a few times. Anyways I recently hung out with him..we did ecstasy together and it was fun. He told me that he liked me (in texts and stuff before) but i don't like him that way. I refused to make out with him or fool around with him that night. He told me he likes hanging out with me and that im really mature. After that night we hung out..he randomly deleted me off his bbm. I sent him a message asking what's wrong and he never replied. He just dissapeared and cut me off out of the blue. Why would he do that? Especially after saying how he likes hanging out with me? I don't get it. I feel offended because i did like him as a friend.
Pasttense Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Because he just wants you for sex. Drugs like ecstasy are very bad for you; quit them.
Wolf18 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Because he's too proud to let you friend zone him. Men and women are different in this regard. If a girl wants to hang out with me all the time and doesn't want to be with me romantically, it offends me, because she is essentially calling me ugly since its obvious she likes my personality. Most men feel the same way, even the masochists who stick around .
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