HeartOnSleeve Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 I'm totally confused. Still seeing someone from a while back. It's never been easy with his job etc. but we've managed to make it work...kind of. I've been very understanding as I am very attracted to him on all levels and know it can be tough for him. But, every time I think it's over he comes back and by over I mean I don't hear from him or he pulls away and then pops back up on the radar. Well over a recent weekend it was just awkward and and I brought it up that I thought it was strange we didn't see each other or really communicate. We had a huge talk about how we weren't just "hooking up" and he ended up saying he was apprehensive because of his job situation etc. but that we won't know if we don't try...right. Well sure enough the past week he's been MIA again. Is this just lack of interest or am I just being insecure. I thought it was settled that we would at least give it an honest shot but now I'm thinking I got the wrong idea or misunderstand. I'm losing faith in men quickly! It's not like i'm dating the same type of guy over and over...they've all been different and equally frustrating. I just want easy going and fun!
Nexus One Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 From what I remember you've been dating soldiers. A while back I recommended to you to try to date guys that work regular jobs locally. I.e. guys with less demanding jobs. Guys who live nearby and who come home every day and weekend so they can spend time with their girlfriend. You said, soldiers deserve love too, well maybe so. But you also deserve a guy that can at least be there for you. In the end it's up to you, but maybe you should draw some conclusions from your experiences with dating soldiers.
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