East7 Posted September 16, 2011 Posted September 16, 2011 Men are chaser and women are choosers. This is very true. Mens are the chasers and women pick among the rivals, it is like this since thousands years... A woman has always more options, but their problem is quality of the prospects. They will always complain that they don't meet the guy they would like to meet. When a woman likes you, everything is so easy.
Eve Posted September 18, 2011 Posted September 18, 2011 It has taken me years to get Hubby to stop saying that he does stuff, 'for me'. I think this is where some of the talk on this thread comes from and personally it would put me off a person if they were to go on about loving me more or whatever. All I would be thinking is, 'yeah, fix the fence before it gets dark'... or whatever. Therefore I can only conclude that it is probably the case that love is something which is shown and bonded by trust. Some aspects of ones nature may be more demonstrative but this still does not mean that one loves another more than the other. In my world how love is reciprocated is what matters. Nope, can't think that my Hubby loves me more or reverse. Doesn't sound very nice. I think each side brings different strengths and weaknesses to a relationship. Some traits are more valuable than others. Take care, Eve x
GoodOnPaper Posted September 22, 2011 Posted September 22, 2011 I would want to love the man I marry (if I ever marry) with all my heart, I want to love them fully, and I really wouldn't marry someone that I just "kinda loved" because they loved me more. Spoken like someone who is confident in her options -- or at least in her ability and opportunity to actively choose her partner. When you really struggle to attract potential partners, turning down someone who is very much into you can be more difficult than you think . . .
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