tranehead Posted May 8, 2004 Posted May 8, 2004 i was seeing this girl for a few months but she decided she wanted to be "just friends" that was a few weeks ago and she has been acting really weird when ever we see each other. to me that hasnt been a big deal and i have been trying to be friends even though i do like her and it hasnt been a prob for me. she on the other hand seems really uncomfortable. what does all this mean? does thatmean she really feels like we should be more than friends?
Broli2001122 Posted May 8, 2004 Posted May 8, 2004 One question before I go in depth. What is she doing that makes you feel this way?
Author tranehead Posted May 8, 2004 Author Posted May 8, 2004 hmm why do i think she is acting weird? here are a few things that have changed: she is never in any more and is always on the go, and she was more of a "homebody"type person she would rather leave me notes saying stuff like "how you are doing ok" than call or talk in person when we do see each other no eye contact what so ever on her part lots of things like that...not sure if that helps or not. I didnt think the whole lets be friends thing was a put on...was i wrong?
Broli2001122 Posted May 8, 2004 Posted May 8, 2004 If these things changed in the opposing form then she is definately up to something. The whole let's be friends thing is definitely not the case but i wish I had some back-up on this.
Author tranehead Posted May 9, 2004 Author Posted May 9, 2004 who changed the title of my thread? i dont like the word crap in there!
moimeme Posted May 9, 2004 Posted May 9, 2004 when we do see each other no eye contact what so ever on her part This is not so good. Sounds like she's found herself somebody else and doesn't want to tell you.
bluechocolate Posted May 9, 2004 Posted May 9, 2004 I think many people (primarily the ones who end it) say "let's just be friends" because they think it's letting someone down easy. "See, I don't hate you or anything, let's just be friends.". Maybe she said that to ease the break up but didn't really mean it and now she's uncomfortable when you're around and possibly feeling guilty(?).
Author tranehead Posted May 9, 2004 Author Posted May 9, 2004 those are some good ideas, but our relationship wasn’t anything serious so i dont see where the guilt would come from. I had heard the “lest be friends” thing before but with her I really thought it was different. Almost like us being friends would be a step in a better direction for us in which the relationship would grow. Assuming that she is not seeing someone else, because I have no reason to doubt her, what comments would you guys have?
moimeme Posted May 9, 2004 Posted May 9, 2004 because I have no reason to doubt her You mean other than she is never in any more and is always on the go, and she was more of a "homebody"type person she would rather leave me notes saying stuff like "how you are doing ok" than call or talk in person when we do see each other no eye contact what so ever on her part ? Because they are all but spelling out that she's busy doing something else - most likely with someone else.
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