OCCDAVE Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Well i talked with that girl last night we aet up a date for sunday.i was wondering how should i go about this outing.quick overview the first date went really good with alot of laughing and touching by her.i returned the favor kissed her and we made out a bit.past week contact has been here and there due to her busy work or so im told?.come sunday do i refrain from any touchy feely stuff or go for it.so any tips would be good .
madjac74 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Well i talked with that girl last night we aet up a date for sunday.i was wondering how should i go about this outing.quick overview the first date went really good with alot of laughing and touching by her.i returned the favor kissed her and we made out a bit.past week contact has been here and there due to her busy work or so im told?.come sunday do i refrain from any touchy feely stuff or go for it.so any tips would be good . I think you should go with the moment but if you made out on the first date and she agreed to a second date then I don't see any reason why you shouldn't have sex with her.
Author OCCDAVE Posted September 9, 2011 Author Posted September 9, 2011 I think you should go with the moment but if you made out on the first date and she agreed to a second date then I don't see any reason why you shouldn't have sex with her.isnt it way to soon for a home run ?
madjac74 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 isnt it way to soon for a home run ? Since you call it a home run, perhaps it is too soon for you
Author OCCDAVE Posted September 9, 2011 Author Posted September 9, 2011 Just got this text could be a convo shes starting or a sign of an excuse for Sunday Hey I woke up this morning again with this on my nose stuffed Im going to the doctor today. They don't open till 12. My nose is running like crazy! Hmm ugh if she cancels sunday she can go to hell
coolheadal Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Just got this text could be a convo shes starting or a sign of an excuse for Sunday Hey I woke up this morning again with this on my nose stuffed Im going to the doctor today. They don't open till 12. My nose is running like crazy! Hmm ugh if she cancels sunday she can go to hell Hey but if she's really sick? Do you want to go on a date with a sick girl. I know the girl I met up with a week to this day being strangers in all was suppose to come her and surprise me but she's sick. I call to make sure she wasn't pulling my leg but she's is sick. She called me and left me a message but still I called her to hear how she had sounded.
KathyM Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 If you do go out with her on Sunday, then do hug and kiss her if she's not sick. I think it's a mistake to make a relationship physical early on. It puts a too familiar element into the relationship before you've even gotten to know the person on an emotional or intellectual level, and it clouds your judgement about them. Find out if you are compatible in other ways first.
madjac74 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Just got this text could be a convo shes starting or a sign of an excuse for Sunday Hey I woke up this morning again with this on my nose stuffed Im going to the doctor today. They don't open till 12. My nose is running like crazy! Hmm ugh if she cancels sunday she can go to hell Well just assume it is a conversation starter rather than a setup to get out of the date. Talk to her awhile and maybe even suggest for her not to worry about the date if she doesnt feel up to it. Be indifferent but nice. It sounds like you like this girl so why get all pissy and defensive and write her off if she decides to cancel one date. she owes you nothing. Give her the benefit of the doubt that she really may be sick. I don't know where you live but here in the midwest USA the weather is changing drasticly and thats when people start getting the sniffles.
Author OCCDAVE Posted September 10, 2011 Author Posted September 10, 2011 Just got this text about sunday wish i could say im shocked I completely forgot to tell u that I need to reschedule. My mom is freaked out about 9/11 & I promised id say home, but I didnt realize it lands on sun. Think this tops the all time excuses
GivenUp0083 Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 Since you call it a home run, perhaps it is too soon for you LOL!!! Just got this text could be a convo shes starting or a sign of an excuse for Sunday Hey I woke up this morning again with this on my nose stuffed Im going to the doctor today. They don't open till 12. My nose is running like crazy! Hmm ugh if she cancels sunday she can go to hell I don't know how old you are, but she's fishing for you to cancel here. If she was honest or respectful, she would sack up and just apologize and say she is not feeling well. Then she would mention that she would like to go out when she feels better. But you can't call her out on it, that would make YOU look like the jerk (do you see how tricky women are?). So at this point, you would say "that's fine, hit me up when you feel better" and then never call her again unless she calls you. Just got this text about sunday wish i could say im shocked I completely forgot to tell u that I need to reschedule. My mom is freaked out about 9/11 & I promised id say home, but I didnt realize it lands on sun. Think this tops the all time excuses Yeah, that's lame. I wouldn't even respond. I would be disgusted with her at this point. But guess what? You're a man, you're gonna have class, just say "that's unfortunate, well I'm going to <insert something really fun here>, have a good weekend". Then never call her again.
Author OCCDAVE Posted September 10, 2011 Author Posted September 10, 2011 I replied heres how it went im not taking any chances myself i am staying sunday in a bunker Lol Me.anyway thats to bad .take care her.why are you getting all mad? Her.relax lets hang out sometime next week Me.who said i was angry? Me.wanna hang ok well tuesdays good for me her.sorry i work all day tues how bout wed me.how bout Thursday That was the end of the convo .i then see on her fb few hours later. Im dancing in the dj booth wit dj douch bag its funny how quick meds work huh?anyway that convo was friday im not gonna contact her again i figure if i hear from her by wed or thurs date is on if not no thx
madjac74 Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 So now what i do Well you can pout and play games because she cancelled on you and you are trying to be macho. Or you can just talk to her because you want to. She can't go out. That doesn't mean she can't talk.
Author OCCDAVE Posted September 10, 2011 Author Posted September 10, 2011 Well you can pout and play games because she cancelled on you and you are trying to be macho. Or you can just talk to her because you want to. She can't go out. That doesn't mean she can't talk.true so i should maintain some contact with her.another thing if wednesday she cancels again should i cut contact after that
madjac74 Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 true so i should maintain some contact with her.another thing if wednesday she cancels again should i cut contact after that According to your previous post you don't have a definite date planned on wednesday, so she wouldn't be cancelling. But if you like her and you enjoy talking to her, why blow things off with her because she cancels or reschedules a date or two? What have you to lose exactly except any chance to be with her?
oaks Posted September 10, 2011 Posted September 10, 2011 She says she'll be home tomorrow, so call her. (Call, not text.)
Author OCCDAVE Posted September 10, 2011 Author Posted September 10, 2011 According to your previous post you don't have a definite date planned on wednesday, so she wouldn't be cancelling. But if you like her and you enjoy talking to her, why blow things off with her because she cancels or reschedules a date or two? What have you to lose exactly except any chance to be with her?true just kinda bugged first night shes all lovey dovey then became a bit cold i dunno.meh
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