Browsed in something I should have not read...now ex very upset..what now?

[Fab001]

well, we are on a break with the agreement we would stay on our own (we do not engage in other relationships or date or anything) and reflect on the relationship.

 

Long story short, leaving all the technical details out, yesterday I stupidly browsed into blog articles I should have not seen/read. As I saw an acronym which referred to a woman. That made me mad and I called him inquiring about this acronym. Well, at the end of the story, that acronym referred to me and reading a few posts, yes it must be true as for some of those episodes it cannot but be me.

 

In those articles there are lots of feelings i thought he had not for me any longer...but anyhow it was not something for my eyes.

 

I fell very stupid and he got totally upset for me breaking his privacy. He threatened me this is the last chance to let him alone (as we were supposed to do as a matter of fact) plus a few other horrible things.

 

I have not contacted him ever since but I am not sure i should send him my apologies or leave him alone as he asks me to do.

 

Im very confused...

Fab

[CarrieT]

well, we are on a break with the agreement we would stay on our own (we do not engage in other relationships or date or anything) and reflect on the relationship.

 

Long story short, leaving all the technical details out, yesterday I stupidly browsed into blog articles I should have not seen/read. As I saw an acronym which referred to a woman. That made me mad and I called him inquiring about this acronym. Well, at the end of the story, that acronym referred to me and reading a few posts, yes it must be true as for some of those episodes it cannot but be me.

 

In those articles there are lots of feelings i thought he had not for me any longer...but anyhow it was not something for my eyes.

 

I fell very stupid and he got totally upset for me breaking his privacy. He threatened me this is the last chance to let him alone (as we were supposed to do as a matter of fact) plus a few other horrible things.

 

I have not contacted him ever since but I am not sure i should send him my apologies or leave him alone as he asks me to do.

 

Im very confused...

Fab

 

 

Seems pretty easy - respect his wishes and leave him alone.

[Tony T]

Totally and completely FORGET about him. This is not a guy who cares about you. Can't you see this? I am a man and if a truly care about a woman I don't separate from her and I show her total understanding and patience. A man who truly cares about a woman does not express his feelings for her in a blog on the Internet in lieu of telling her in her face. Do you really want a man like this??? Move on like he doesn't even exist. PLEASE TRY TO SEE THIS!!! If you had a great relationship, you wouldn't be separated and he wouldn't need time to think about it.

Edited September 9, 2011 by a LoveShack.org Moderator