Buttercup84 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 I decided to make a list of things that I want to achieve in a year. 1. I joined a gym this week and went to a yoga class there. I didn't want to go as I was feeling depressed but felt a bit better when I went.Will try to go Monday to Friday. 2. Had a hens night last weekend and we had pole dancing lessons it was so much fun. Being with my ex made me feel really unsexy in the end and my self esteem took a blow. I want to do a 8 week course there , it will be good for exercise and the teachers there are really nice and it might build my confidence. 3. Do really well at Uni and TAFE. I am studying teaching at Uni and childcare at TAFE ( college ) . 4. Eat healthier - already started bringing salads to work and drinking water. Still got to stop those cravings for coke and KFC.Other than that I am eating much better than when I was with my ex as he ate a lot of big meals.I lost weight and feel a bit better. 5.Take some Italian cooking lessons. While living with my ex he was the one who taught me to cook.I feel like I want learn something by myself and get more skills and be able to look after myself. 6. Take ballet lessons ! I always wanted to do this and they have classes for adults. 7. Go on a holiday.Am thinking about going to Bali as a friend of mine lives there. I haven't been on a holiday for three years now.But am I being weird for being worried about used as a drug mule ? haha.Australians seem to have bad luck there !
mtd4249 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Buttercup .... good on you! Focusing on yourself is exactly the right thing to do. I haven't been as progressive as you - even though I know I should. Then again, Tasmania isn't as progressive as other states! lol And, no drug smuggling to Bali!!
sleepykitten Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 HEy there Buttercup, its great you have goals, I do too just havent written them down yet, one i am already doing which is moving to a new flat with my friend i used to live with and in a new area. I am counting down the days to this as i feel its like my fresh start, have never really liked the place I am in now even when things were good with the ex now its just full of memories of him too....it will cost me loads more a month but its worth it as i feel like i am in an emotional prison, every time i walk up to the building i feel like bursting into tears! Good luck with all yours, its such a good idea to have a positive outlook.
M2155 Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Thats awesome you have goals and a pretty impressive list. I should write something down. I need to find a new hobby! You will become waaayy better than the person you were when you were with him.
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