Country_Girl Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 I meant to post this here, since there is no talk of a LDR as of yet, but accidentally posted in the LDR forum. So, met this guy while he was on vacation in my home state for 3 weeks. I didn't plan on getting attached as he lives several states away. But we just kind of connected, no pun intended lol. I just really enjoy his company. Even the last night we spent together, we didn't hook up, we just cuddled all night, it was really sweet. I don't really want this to end, and it doesn't neccessarily have to, he plans on moving out here in Februrary. I'm just trying to figure out the delicate balance of remaining in contact...how much contact is too much, and what is not enough? If I don't hear from him in 2 days I usually send a text to make sure all is well, and he always calls me after a text, so that makes me think he's on the same page...he wants to communicate and not via text. If it were just a fling, don't you think he'd want to talk less on the phone? I don't know, obviousley never been in this situation before. Never had a fling, one night stand, or any of that before. I just don't know how to proceed. I mean, if it was just a fling, he would have stopped talking to me by now, right?
Author Country_Girl Posted September 9, 2011 Author Posted September 9, 2011 Watched the vid, but didn't really get the reffrence to my story.
Feelin Frisky Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 I don't see a problem unless your fears creates one. He seems to be interested and obviously you are. Communicate with him and make it work. Simple. Good luck.
betterdeal Posted September 9, 2011 Posted September 9, 2011 Sorry, the video had nothing to do with your situation and I was reminded of that scene by the thread title, that's all. Maybe worrying and planning is the problem? You had fun, you chat every so often, you like each other. This is all good, right? Maybe you want more physical contact rather than just chatting and that's what you're missing right now. Accept that if that's what it is and then you don't have to over-intellectualise it.
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